If you in love how is it not serious? If you love some one you should do what you can to be with them even if you don't go to the same "uni" you could go visit once or twice a week. If you love each other distance wont stop that.
From the same user who answered the Q, additionally, it's very hard being away for him and I am currently starting my Uni applications and feel I am making the right choice by going to the same Uni as him, not because he's there but because I visited him for a week up there and loved the environment, and because of the course. I'm not basing my decision on the fact that he's there, though many people see it like that. I'm worried that if by going, we later split up, I will regret going to the Uni. But I know if I don't go we will end up splitting up anyway because the distance is just too hard.
I don't want to make things more serious as they are, and I feel that by going to his Uni is doing that.
I don't want to make things more serious as they are, and I feel that by going to his Uni is doing that.
This is where open communication should play a role. You have to do what you know is right for yourself first and if it works out that you and he can be together there then it is a win, win deal. If you both are not communicating and can't talk through it, it is already time to move on, thus why you need to take care of yourself first.
I think you should go there n be with him. That's what i would've done in your case if you can move there even if it's gonna be hard and you're sure of him and his feelings and of course you're absolutely sure of your feelings towards him i really think you should go n join him, seeing that that uni has the perfect course for you then there you go! You're together to support each other and you taking your course..
Just let him go there are plenty of fish in the sea.