My Friend Has Stopped Emailing Me And I Got Angry. I Keep Checking My Mails. But When I Check I Feel Sad Tht He Is Not Emailing Me.How To Get Rid Of This Habit ?He Went To London. Shall I Wait For 1week?

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Dipa Suresh Profile
Dipa Suresh answered
I know, it is very easy to become obsessed with e-mails, and become completely consumed with the desire to check your mail every few moments.

Do try your best to avoid this, as this is not at all a good habit.

Your friend may be busy, or he may not have access to the Internet, or he may simply have grown out of the habit of sending e-mails to his friends. Therefore, there is no need to feel sad; he will contact you when he has the time or the need to do so. Why waste you time over these trifling things, when you can spend your time more productively and happily?

I am sure you are aware that several companies across the world have started to put a ban on their employees spending time on writing or reading e-mails, stating that they wish their employees would spend their time more productively. Perhaps this is what has happened to your friend.
Do not wait for him to e-mail you, do other things, and reply when and if you receive his mail..
Rachel Sharp Profile
Rachel Sharp answered
Sometimes people can be a bit obsessive about email. It is quite normal and perhaps a natural result of getting an email account. However, remember that it is very easy for people to forget to email. It can also become very time-consuming. In fact, some company offices have eliminated email altogether because of the amount of time employees were spending on it.

Try to get out of the habit of checking your email constantly. This may be easier said then done, but is worth the effort. Otherwise, you'll find yourself wasting hours waiting for a response. Find other productive things to occupy your time.

Most importantly, try to focus on yourself rather than your friend. Develop your own interests. Work on being happy without the approval or validation from your friend. It is a hard lesson to learn but almost everyone who is in a relationship has to learn it at some point. You'll feel a lot happier as a result.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I'm in a similar situation...my penpal lives in Australia and only writes at weekends. During the week I have a strong desire to run away to the airport, sneak on board a plane, get off at Canberra and never come back.

Your friend could have several reasons for not writing to you-
1.hes very busy
2.he rarely has access to email
3.he finds writing email very difficult
4.he has no news

I'm sure he will write again sometime in the near future. Don't feel sad. You will get to see him when he comes back.

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