How to tell my Wife's mother to back off? She calls everyday, and passes negative feedback about my family to my wife, my wife then gets off the phone and starts an argument with me about how my family treats her mother

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Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
Then time for some tough love and a reality check for mother in law, without any witnesses around corner her and tell her exactly what you think of her and she better butt out or else. This way she has no witness and you can say shes getting old and senile and delusional paranoid, and you have no idea what shes talking about except to start trouble. I had to do this to mine and it works if done right
Edward The Thirteenth Profile
Wife's mothers are always a catastrophe, they're half-crazy, and dealing with them is quit a challenge...
A. Understand how she attacks and know what's her next move, then try to modify your wife's thoughts before dear grandma calls to ruin your life.
B. Try talking about the issue with your wife, and do like if you love the mad-mom but can't understand the behavior, don't argue but make yourself look innocent, look like you are the victim.
C. If A and B don't work, just go and talk with mad-granny yourself about what's bothering her, be diplomat...
Good luck!!
Teddy Bash Profile
Teddy Bash answered
Only you will know how but think bout it what will happen if you do sometimes better to try to annoy just image it if it was your family doing it to her I have the same problems at times
kyla streeter Profile
kyla streeter answered

its not her mother you need to talk to its your wife. If she is understanding like a wife is suppose to be, she will know how to let her mom down herself.

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