What Is The One Thing That People Don't Notice About You That You Wish They Would?


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Robin Burden Profile
Robin Burden answered
In my case - I'd have to say it's my sensitive side.  I can be really caring, compassionate and empathetic, but no-one seems to pick up on that!

I've spent most of my life as a teacher, so perhaps that's got something to do with it.

Why does no-one notice that about me?
As a man, I know that guys tend to be a little cautious about sharing their feelings and emotions, but I really don't understand why no-one can see my softer side.

I make an effort to smile and be friendly, I even voice my opinions and share intimate thoughts when someone is willing to listen, so I really don't understand why I'm so misunderstood!

How to get people to notice your qualities?
This is a question I've been thinking about a lot.

The most obvious answer would be to emphasize or exaggerate things. If you want someone to notice that you're polite, go overboard and be super-polite. If you want someone to see your 'physical assets', then pick an outfit that flaunts them.

I guess the only danger is when people go overboard - when they exaggerate a quality so much that it starts to work against them. Being over-the-top might get you mistakenly labelled as fake, flamboyant or insincere.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
That I am a girl. They know I am, but they don't treat me like one.
thanked the writer.
Rath Keale
Rath Keale commented
If you start punching people in the face, they will be more respectful of your sensitivities on this topic.

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