My Boyfriend Is Getting Married, Should I Get Rid Of Him Or Be The Other Women?

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Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I think you should have more respect, not only for that poor woman he is marrying, but for yourself. First of all, how would you feel if he were your husband and he was cheating on you with her? That would be pretty painful, huh? Secondly, I would never be with a married man for a couple of reasons. #1.) I have to much self respect to be with someone who is so disrespectful to a person who he supposedly loves and is going to marry.  #2.) I would not feel comfortable being the "side dish" that someone runs to when it is convenient for him. #3.) Believe it or not, yes...I would actually think about the wife. If she knows or is suspicious, imagine the stress the 2 of you are causing this woman. If she does not know, she is being made a fool of and does not deserve that. Well, that's just my opinion. But I guess that's what we're all here for...eachothers advice and opinions. Just that title alone...."The Other Woman", sounds so degrading to me. Sometimes doing the right thing isn't always the easiest. I wish all 3 of you the best of luck.
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nettie answered
That is not going to last being the other,woman because you will from time to time think that at one time he was your boyfriend and did not marry you went and found someone else to honor,love and cherish,and left you behind so that makes him a user and you are just a free lay and he will go home to be with his wife, holidays wife,soon there will be kids,why would you want to put yourself in that position,you are worth more than that,show him a real woman and move on with your life and don't give him the time of day,let it be his lost....good luck  
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Anonymous answered
If your boyfriend is getting married, it depends on him too... He has accepted to marry her. But if he told you directly that he is getting married he also means tat you should stay away.. He is just finding another way to escape the relationship.don't fall for his sweet words..... That is just to put you down and push you away
I was in a relationship too. But my boyfriend started avoiding me recently and he told me that he is getting married next year. I'm shocked and I really did not know tat he did not love me as much as I did.that's when I started making him feel that I'm not going to be alone. I'l get married too someday and he wil be invited. I just want to make him feel jealous that I'm not his girl anymore.
If you are so sure he is not yours anymore. Please don
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Anonymous answered
Move on, he obviously has.   You are allowing yourself to be used by him.  Why would you want to be the other woman?  You will never feel totally fulfilled and this will cause you so much heartache in the long run.
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zoey zoey answered
I'm going thru the same thing it hurts me a lot and I can't seem to move on , I was the gf and now I'm no1 .. Am I supposed to sit and smile and wish him all the best while he goes and marries tht ugly bitch?!
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Anonymous answered
I have been dating my boyfriend for seven years.  He was recently divorced when I met him.  I just found out that he got married last year.  I was shocked.  He doesn't know that I know.  Why do men do this to us?
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mek nic answered
Get rid of him if he is getting benifits you will never get rid of him let alone you get pregnate your screwed! Your better than that, woman you need to say bye bye  and he can use his hand till he's married.  Good luck since you like the sex to or you would of been gone already, cut him off!
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Anonymous answered
Personally, let him go.  If he doesn't love you enough to marry you and make you his only love, he's not worth it.  Besides, you are worth more than 2nd place!  Good luck!!
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Lady D Bell answered
If the man is getting marry, then he no longer your boyfriend. He asked this women for her hand in marriage. Release yourself from this man and move on.  Its somebody else out their that will appreciate you.  
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Jazmine Putnam answered
Well look at your self first do you want to be known as the other girl the back up I think that you need to be happy  and seeing your boyfriend married and happy will hurt things and your self spread your horizon while you have me time
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Anonymous commented
well you are nice.....tell me do you think ,this going to help...ask yuor self....would you do it???....that's a big lie from all women's.
Natalie Jo Price
I can say tis confidently ... I WOULD NEVER do that
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Anonymous commented
sorry for what I said...but I just think she can be stronger than that....I growup with a lot a woman's...I was the only boy and...if something I have learned from is....those kind of advices don't get you anywhere....in fact you....don't lisent to this people....I don'tknow howthe hell I get here....for real....but I'm gonna help you right now....forget that guy...go outside and takethe first man who you look nice,just for fun and later live he if you want too......just remember...that guy gonna be married...he doesn't loveyou he never did.......sorry again
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Anonymous answered
If he is getting married he made his choice. Move on in life. Find a good bf who will stay with you.
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Drummergal answered
Please don't set yourself up like this . First he is your boyfriend and he is getting married  , WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS " PICTURE ??  -- Don't be leftovers for anyone .

You have to know you deserve better .

Please MOVE ON   -  good luck

Natalie Jo Price Profile

The most direct answer is this...what the hell are you thinking?! He is MARRYING someone else! Why do you want to be sloppy seconds all the time knowing he is going to bed with another woman every night?! Respect yourself, find a great man who wants you and only you. You deserve nothing less than than that!

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