Is He Avoiding Me?

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Mobius17 has given you some really good advice.  It really could be any number of things.  Do you only email each other or are there phone calls and dates too?  If there has only been email so far then it is as likely trouble with his computer as anything else.  If you've been talking on the phone too, and seeing one another and now all of a sudden it stops that may be something else.  If you have been doing more than emailing then you would be more likely to know if he's okay, I mean not ill or something.  I'd just send him a short message saying you've missed hearing from him and hope he's okay.  Then do as mobius17 suggested and get into some project you've set aside.  If you don't have one, read a book you've put off reading, something that will give you a reward, not just work.  If you don't hear from him after a month, you can be pretty sure he's not interested but you know what?  It's normal to be disappointed and hurt, but do try to remember how good you felt when you were hearing from him.  It was fun and made you feel good.  You got something very good out of it.  You'll feel that good again soon, whether it's because of something or someone else, or from the nice person you find inside yourself.
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Mobius17 has given you some really good advice.  It really could be any number of things.  Do you only email each other or are there phone calls and dates too?  If there has only been email so far then it is as likely trouble with his computer as anything else.  If you've been talking on the phone too, and seeing one another and now all of a sudden it stops that may be something else.  If you have been doing more than emailing then you would be more likely to know if he's okay, I mean not ill or something.  I'd just send him a short message saying you've missed hearing from him and hope he's okay.  Then do as mobius17 suggested and get into some project you've set aside.  If you don't have one, read a book you've put off reading, something that will give you a reward, not just work.  If you don't hear from him after a month, you can be pretty sure he's not interested but you know what?  It's normal to be disappointed and hurt, but do try to remember how good you felt when you were hearing from him.  It was fun and made you feel good.  You got something very good out of it.  You'll feel that good again soon, whether it's because of something or someone else, or from the nice person you find inside yourself.
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Relax, be cool.  Don't smother him, but let him know you're there when he's ready to talk.  Maybe his computer is broken or he's got a deadline at work.  Could be anything; sometimes life brings the unexpected.  Pick an unrelated project you haven't been able to "get to" and put some time in on that.  Before you know it you'll have your answer, you won't have driven yourself crazy, and you'll have accomplished something else you wanted to do anyway.  (Smile and make them wonder what you're up to.)
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kayla nichelle answered
Lol Relax, be cool.  Don't smother him, but let him know you're there when he's ready to talk.  Maybe his computer is broken or he's got a deadline at work.  Could be anything; sometimes life brings the unexpected.  Pick an unrelated project you haven't been able to "get to" and put some time in on that.  Before you know it you'll have your answer, you won't have driven yourself crazy, and you'll have accomplished something else you wanted to do anyway.  (Smile and make them wonder what you're up to.)
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Obviously if she is avoiding you and makes excuses- you can't rely on her to give you an honest answer. You can maybe ask a mutual friend if they know what's going on. Otherwise- just remind your friend that she is the one who hurt you... And if she keeps refusing to talk to you.... I say give it a few days and let her 'cool off' and talk to her then.
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David Mathley answered
Yes without a doubt he is avoiding you.
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jatin sandhu answered
If he ignores you , and doesn't listen to you,
Also insulted you on your every talk with him or her or also with anyone else.
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Kate answered
If they are quick with answers when you ask them something, walk away when you're near, etc...
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Winter answered
Maybe you should give him space. He probably think you want him to be your boy friend and he may want you as a friend.  If he still isn't mailing you back, then pay him a little visit.
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Anonymous answered
There is a possible chance that he might not have feelings for you,
but it could also maybe its something you said,
ask a friend who is close with him to talk to him,
doing this, they can find out whats up with the guy you like
Jasmine TooMuchInfo Profile
Yes he is avoiding you, I'm sorry ! Why don't you try getting one of your friends to ask him why he's avoiding you ? That might help. At least you'd know why.

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