My Friend Gets Mad At Me For Every Thing I Do! Really Everything. How Do I Stop The Fights?

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Penny Kay Profile
Penny Kay answered
I would not accept that kind of abuse from a friend. A true friend would not hurt you like that all the time. What does your friend have that you like about her. Weigh the good side against the irritations and if the negative list is longer, find a new friend. One ought to have a few acquaintances to hang out with  that  might turn into deeper  relationships, consider getting a new friend or friends.  Sometimes we become too Dependant on One friend for support and fun, and the friendship wanes. That is why it is good to have several friends.
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isaac  white
isaac white commented
Yeah its good i uderstand your point but somtimes thats the only person you can count on so you will always got to that person its ok if you always go to him at least you know you can always count on him
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Anonymous answered
My friend ALWAYS gets mad at me and half the time I literally have no idea what I did wrong.On top of that she is totally sensitive, so when I ask, she thinks I'M mad at her... It's a tough life!!! What I do, is ignore it when she walks off so she comes to me.
ON TOP OFF THAT!!, she treats me and all of the girls in my class like dirt. We can't even tell her because she will tell her parents, and her parents will tell ours, and ... You get the picture. So for all the people who have these friends, my advice is to just act normal around her and if she "walks out" then just act as if she was never there. It should work!!!!
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Char Patnode answered
May be she really isn't mad at you but something else is going on in her life. Have you tried talking to her about how it makes you feel when she does this? Try talking to her without being attacking. Don't use words like "you always" Try explaining to her that you value her friendship and want to know how you both can work on this. It takes two to have a friendship and it is work and takes patience, kindness, understanding, and love. Good luck and remember it may not have anything to do with you. Take Care
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isaac  white
isaac white commented
Hey dont worry im having the same problem with my freid nathan every time we get into it its always my fault no matter what i awlawys have to say sorry and supposedly he dosent want to be freids any more but i cant let him go i dont know wether i should let him go or not i dont want to let him go he s my best true freid and its hard for me not to talk to him what should i do
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Anonymous commented
I got the same problem with my friend as well she treat me like her slave so baciclly i told her and she said to me " i dont want to be your friend any more bye" that what she said and after 3 weeks she came and said sorry to me and bieng my friend and then she took my other best friend which is popular in the school and start bieng horrible to me what should i do?????????????????
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Anonymous answered
Oh my god,, I have the same problem!!,, my friend is getting mad at me just because I like this guy that goes to another school....
Like what the heck?,, its your life, act the way you want... True friends don't get mad at you just for that...,, take her and say " I don't know why your mad at me,, but if your not my friend then just say it in my face... Don't always ignore me."
sorry but, yo only come to life only once and you're suppose to have fun and enjoy,, don't be a follower, be a leader and yull always have people around you....
Lettme tell you my story:
Last year my best friend was in my school,, we  were like twins... But this year she went to another school, we got separated,, and theres this other girl her name is frankie... Last year she was a follower,, she used to follow me and my bff, but his year since my bff went to another school, frankie took over my bff's place!!,
So now I don't talk to frankie,,,,
so I'm just tellling you!, ENJOY LIFE!, don't let them get to you!.
mikayla kathlina Profile
I am in the same boat. My friend heather always gets mad at me and she says it's because of her family and she has depression issues and she blames her period on the reason for all her problems. She treats me and my friend Lynna like crap sometimes and acts like we aint even alive. I want to be friends with her, but I don't know if I should. My boyfriend doesn't like her nor does Lynna's bf, but she comes up to me and tries to get me to talk to her by making me laugh. We've known each other since we were 5 so were really close. Were 15 now and I just....I don't know what to do. She is really cool when she wants to be but....I don't want to really be her friend anymore. But for those who know how hard it can be to choose, you get who I am confused. Please help....
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Anonymous answered
I really don't think you should be friends with that person. I wouldn't either like to have a friend like that, either. Tell her in a calm way to find someone else thats a fight-picker. I had a friend like this. She would always make fights out of it. It's painful. Shes not my friend anymore, hopefully. Though, I'm going through a VERY much painful situation. She's trying to be friends with my other friend. She's not a fight-picker. Shes a true friend, and I'm scared shes going to suck into the fighting-kind. You know what I mean? Into the fight-picker girls interests. I am really mad at them. I am not talking to them, but today on the track I yelled ITS ALL YOUR FAULT! I ran away as fast I could, but then they both said, why? Yes, this is true. She's not that much of a fight-picker now. Just let the person who whines all the time be friends with one of yours and she will be 50% better. Less whiney. This will work, then you ask her to be your friend again.
shell gg Profile
shell gg answered
Tell her to put a sock in it
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Anonymous answered
My friend SAMANTHA , she all ways gets mad. And all ways thinks its my fault.
And when I confront her she crys. And she says here family's mean to her. And her family is so nice. I know everything about them.
Oh and I'm good friends with her other friend Alaesha and the all ways leave me out sometimes. And when I tell her to stop leaving me out she says I leave her out. And Alaesha is mean . She all ways makes me pay for her. Sometimes I don't know what to do....
Please help me.
Also , I have to be friends with hurrr  becasue my mom and her mom are like jointed at the tips .
And I ride her bus. So ! I have no clue whata dooo. She calls me NAMES behind my back. And then pretends I do. So really I'm mad at her.
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Anonymous answered
Just tell her you want to be Friends and that you don't want her to get mad at  you that much and tell her also that you like her friendship and that she is such a good friend to you and that you are a good friend to her and that you would appreciate if you 2 were friends again and see if that works...
Ellie May Profile
Ellie May answered
It's like everyone has these problems now. I have the same problems, too. My friend gets mad at me on a daily basis, for almost nothing. Now, she's mad at me for being boring. Seriously, boring. I don't like being something else that she wants me to be, even if its for being boring. I'm trying to move on with my life and focusing on the good points, but I can't do that every time she's pissing off at me for being boring!
John Profile
John answered
Remember they are a flawed(sinful) person just like you and words are words unless she actually means(believes what they are saying is gospel/the only truth/word that counts) them then it is time to find a new friend that will talk to you and not at you like your one of their lap dogs.remember you asked for the truth.
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mistery man
mistery man commented
No reason to force religion on anyone
John
John commented
: ) ,religion-where do you come up with that .the phrase is gospel,in other words the person talking at her thinks they can't be in the wrong when speaking at them instead of to her/another person. And sin is sin in any type of faith. But yes if i deem it necessary i will speak about god/Yhwh/jesus(a personal relationship with my/your/our creator- this is not a manmade religion/ or religious practice) . End
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Alva Lipscomb answered
Sounds like she might not want to be friends with you.  If she is telling you that "you don't even know what you do", maybe you should ask her what is it that you do.  She needs to point it out to you what makes her mad.  If it is bothering you that much, it might not be worth continuing the friendship.  Friendships shouldn't invole someone who can't explain why they get mad at you.  A true friend would tell you so that you can resolve the issue and remain friends.
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isaac  white
isaac white commented
Yeah that might be it there may be something else in her life tell her if you ever need someone to talk to or cry to im there
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Anonymous answered
Yeea my friend does this to me all the time we realized that it was better just not to b friends even thought it hurt and it was hard it might hav been for the bettter and ik its hard to take this advice but every happends for a reason and you just got to go with the flow
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Anonymous answered

That's the same with me, my friend hits me, tells me to shut up she copies my work and then yet i say one thing that doesn't even mean anything and she gets angry. I don't know what to do i message her and ask her what i did wrong. I just have the urge to ignore her right back as she does to me because i know she will try and talk to me again. What do i do?

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Anonymous , Idk anymore!, answered

I FEEL YOU!!! Ok, so I have a friend,we've been friends for quite sometime,but there is one thing that gets on my nerves SO BAD.She is always mad at me!!! ALWAYS (For example) Whenever we get done Facetiming,and I say I have to go...she gets mad.

Then says to me on snapchat (all the time) 😒"That's fine" I have to talk to my other friends that actually want to talk to me"        

LIKE WTF SORRY I HAVE TO GO! She also talks about me behind my back with another really close friend of mine. (We're all best friends) (sadly)😒but anyways whenever they want to spend the night with each other they talk about me! I know because the other one always rats the other one out! They say things about me such as...I wear too much makeup (btw I DON'T ) Only eye shadow and mascara) I'm 13. They also say things such as...I'm annoying! And many many other things!😒😒 

But the one that gets mad at me all the time is so annoying! She always talks about everybody! SHE IS DEFINITELY A DRAMA/GOSSIP QUEEN!  Heck she even sent embarrassing pictures to my crush and said I liked him, she always says I'm fake and a bad friend. When really THAT'S HER! She even gets mad when I hang out with other people......I don't do anything!  AND I'M THE TERRIBLE FRIENd? 😒😑 WOW!

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isaac white answered
Well try talking to her by hereslf after school or any other time or go to the cousnler I knoe its hard but be the bigger person and say I'm sorry for everything I put you through and I hope we can stll be freinds and if he says no give her a couple of days and the next time you see her do something really special for her always be there for her even if it gets you in trouble cuse that will show them you really love and care about them  and you will always be there for her and if it doenst work out say ok but still be  her frind just from a distance just don't let hwer know it cuse that might start drama but always be there for her good luck
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Anonymous answered
My friend does that too but everytime I talk to her she gets mad and swears at me I don't know how to stop the fight :(
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Anonymous answered
Well listen mine is the same way! I got sick of it and confounded her and is she gets mad at her don't apoligies 9 times out of 10 its not your fault so go with and talk to her about it
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Anonymous answered
My friend is mad at me because I didn`t go to our soccer game. Because she thinks that I think that I`m a jinks but thats not true I just don`t feel like going. So shes all pissed off greattttttt.
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Becca Zabolio answered
I have a friendship problem too. Me and a girl named Anna Catherine have been close friends since 3rd grade (we're in 7th now) and we've always been super close. But all of a sudden, starting about two months ago she made two new friends which its fine to have other friends!! I'm not saying I want her all to myself but now I get left out of everything! She and her two friends do EVERYTHING together and leave me out allot. If there is a group project no one asks me to be in their group they just do it together without me. Also, I have allot of friends but no one as close as Anna Catherine was and even though I've been getting allot of advice to move on, I don't know who to turn to... So, sure, Anna Catherine has two great new friends but did she ever consider where that left me???

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