My friend ALWAYS gets mad at me and half the time I literally have no idea what I did wrong.On top of that she is totally sensitive, so when I ask, she thinks I'M mad at her... It's a tough life!!! What I do, is ignore it when she walks off so she comes to me.
ON TOP OFF THAT!!, she treats me and all of the girls in my class like dirt. We can't even tell her because she will tell her parents, and her parents will tell ours, and ... You get the picture. So for all the people who have these friends, my advice is to just act normal around her and if she "walks out" then just act as if she was never there. It should work!!!!
May be she really isn't mad at you but something else is going on in her life. Have you tried talking to her about how it makes you feel when she does this? Try talking to her without being attacking. Don't use words like "you always" Try explaining to her that you value her friendship and want to know how you both can work on this. It takes two to have a friendship and it is work and takes patience, kindness, understanding, and love. Good luck and remember it may not have anything to do with you. Take Care
Oh my god,, I have the same problem!!,, my friend is getting mad at me just because I like this guy that goes to another school....
Like what the heck?,, its your life, act the way you want... True friends don't get mad at you just for that...,, take her and say " I don't know why your mad at me,, but if your not my friend then just say it in my face... Don't always ignore me."
sorry but, yo only come to life only once and you're suppose to have fun and enjoy,, don't be a follower, be a leader and yull always have people around you....
Lettme tell you my story:
Last year my best friend was in my school,, we were like twins... But this year she went to another school, we got separated,, and theres this other girl her name is frankie... Last year she was a follower,, she used to follow me and my bff, but his year since my bff went to another school, frankie took over my bff's place!!,
So now I don't talk to frankie,,,,
so I'm just tellling you!, ENJOY LIFE!, don't let them get to you!.
I am in the same boat. My friend heather always gets mad at me and she says it's because of her family and she has depression issues and she blames her period on the reason for all her problems. She treats me and my friend Lynna like crap sometimes and acts like we aint even alive. I want to be friends with her, but I don't know if I should. My boyfriend doesn't like her nor does Lynna's bf, but she comes up to me and tries to get me to talk to her by making me laugh. We've known each other since we were 5 so were really close. Were 15 now and I just....I don't know what to do. She is really cool when she wants to be but....I don't want to really be her friend anymore. But for those who know how hard it can be to choose, you get who I am confused. Please help....
I really don't think you should be friends with that person. I wouldn't either like to have a friend like that, either. Tell her in a calm way to find someone else thats a fight-picker. I had a friend like this. She would always make fights out of it. It's painful. Shes not my friend anymore, hopefully. Though, I'm going through a VERY much painful situation. She's trying to be friends with my other friend. She's not a fight-picker. Shes a true friend, and I'm scared shes going to suck into the fighting-kind. You know what I mean? Into the fight-picker girls interests. I am really mad at them. I am not talking to them, but today on the track I yelled ITS ALL YOUR FAULT! I ran away as fast I could, but then they both said, why? Yes, this is true. She's not that much of a fight-picker now. Just let the person who whines all the time be friends with one of yours and she will be 50% better. Less whiney. This will work, then you ask her to be your friend again.
Tell her to put a sock in it
My friend SAMANTHA , she all ways gets mad. And all ways thinks its my fault.
And when I confront her she crys. And she says here family's mean to her. And her family is so nice. I know everything about them.
Oh and I'm good friends with her other friend Alaesha and the all ways leave me out sometimes. And when I tell her to stop leaving me out she says I leave her out. And Alaesha is mean . She all ways makes me pay for her. Sometimes I don't know what to do....
Please help me.
Also , I have to be friends with hurrr becasue my mom and her mom are like jointed at the tips .
And I ride her bus. So ! I have no clue whata dooo. She calls me NAMES behind my back. And then pretends I do. So really I'm mad at her.
Just tell her you want to be Friends and that you don't want her to get mad at you that much and tell her also that you like her friendship and that she is such a good friend to you and that you are a good friend to her and that you would appreciate if you 2 were friends again and see if that works...
Tell because she is mean because you did no such thing
It's like everyone has these problems now. I have the same problems, too. My friend gets mad at me on a daily basis, for almost nothing. Now, she's mad at me for being boring. Seriously, boring. I don't like being something else that she wants me to be, even if its for being boring. I'm trying to move on with my life and focusing on the good points, but I can't do that every time she's pissing off at me for being boring!
Remember they are a flawed(sinful) person just like you and words are words unless she actually means(believes what they are saying is gospel/the only truth/word that counts) them then it is time to find a new friend that will talk to you and not at you like your one of their lap dogs.remember you asked for the truth.
Sounds like she might not want to be friends with you. If she is telling you that "you don't even know what you do", maybe you should ask her what is it that you do. She needs to point it out to you what makes her mad. If it is bothering you that much, it might not be worth continuing the friendship. Friendships shouldn't invole someone who can't explain why they get mad at you. A true friend would tell you so that you can resolve the issue and remain friends.
Yeea my friend does this to me all the time we realized that it was better just not to b friends even thought it hurt and it was hard it might hav been for the bettter and ik its hard to take this advice but every happends for a reason and you just got to go with the flow
Well try talking to her by hereslf after school or any other time or go to the cousnler I knoe its hard but be the bigger person and say I'm sorry for everything I put you through and I hope we can stll be freinds and if he says no give her a couple of days and the next time you see her do something really special for her always be there for her even if it gets you in trouble cuse that will show them you really love and care about them and you will always be there for her and if it doenst work out say ok but still be her frind just from a distance just don't let hwer know it cuse that might start drama but always be there for her good luck
My friend does that too but everytime I talk to her she gets mad and swears at me I don't know how to stop the fight :(
Grab her by the hair & give her a passionate kiss. That should fix it.
Well listen mine is the same way! I got sick of it and confounded her and is she gets mad at her don't apoligies 9 times out of 10 its not your fault so go with and talk to her about it
My friend is mad at me because I didn`t go to our soccer game. Because she thinks that I think that I`m a jinks but thats not true I just don`t feel like going. So shes all pissed off greattttttt.
I have a friendship problem too. Me and a girl named Anna Catherine have been close friends since 3rd grade (we're in 7th now) and we've always been super close. But all of a sudden, starting about two months ago she made two new friends which its fine to have other friends!! I'm not saying I want her all to myself but now I get left out of everything! She and her two friends do EVERYTHING together and leave me out allot. If there is a group project no one asks me to be in their group they just do it together without me. Also, I have allot of friends but no one as close as Anna Catherine was and even though I've been getting allot of advice to move on, I don't know who to turn to... So, sure, Anna Catherine has two great new friends but did she ever consider where that left me???