Analyzing is a good thing, when it becomes over, you think very differently, you tend to find loopholes, stop thinking / analyzing for some days, it will be normal once again.
Yes, and that person is You! Chill out, put a blank sheet of paper in front of you while you are sitting at the kitchen table. Draw a line top to bottom down the center of the paper. List on one side of the line everything that you like, would like or want. List on the other side exactly what you feel have, was or are being denied you. Work on both sides of the line, till you fill up the one side of the paper. Don't write on the backside of the paper yet!
Leave the paper on the table for 4 hours. Go back to & read one side and then the other. Print on the backside one item from each side of the line. That's your problem and there is what you have to work on to get whats on the other side. Only after you know how important what you want is.....you will work on eliminating the obstacle to obtaining it! Earn what you want by changing the negative...Now you approach him and clearly state, It's finally sunk in about what I do to drive you away.....shut up now and listen to what is told to you! Live with it!