Is there a question here?
Everybodys got boyfriends and girlfriends now, all my friends , i feel so lonely and have no one to love who can love me back ???i feel so sad....
Been there, done that. You have to find the things in life that make YOU happy and do them. You will then find people with shared interests and find someone to spend your time and heart with.
Lol! I love how you got a male answer and a female answer! 😅 Now I will give you a mom answer. We are so proud of you Nice Girl. You are such a joy to have to this site. Your "innocence" is a breath of fresh air in a world full of ads and shows and life in general for young adults which is popularized by perversion. We enjoy your personality. DON'T change for anyone! You are you and we like you for you! ☺
Now if having a boyfriend/girlfriend was a bridge and all your friends were jumping off... Would you feel compelled to as well? I would sure hope not. Jump when YOU are ready not just because everyone else is jumping! 😆
I will be your friend
You are in trouble if you walk around feeling unloved. Your day will come just hang in there and don't in a hurry.
Sorry for the long post in advance but I can relate to you! Everyone's just together nowadays, whether they are happy or not. Well firstly I need to say, no matter what, always make sure to remind yourself, "I have standards. Let's not get desperate, because we deserve the best we can do for ourselves." This is crucial, and it's a huge step to feeling complete as yourself, which is really important for the stuff that comes next as a teen...
... I know it's especially hard when you're a writer and hopeless romantic. Sometimes a crush just hurts so good (is it just me? Lol), and I've figured that's alright too. As long as you can healthily remind yourself that you are enough without a partner, "the chase" is always exciting and doesn't harm anybody.
Or maybe you're bored with focusing on school and the same old hobbies all the time? Maybe you could try something completely new. That's definitely a great, productive distraction you can't regret.
Oh, and lastly, remember that even though it looks like everyone has their "other half", a percent of those relationships are superficial and unhealthy. I can't count how many times I've seen controlling, insecure teen couples that pose as cute and perfect outside of their immature fights. I just feel sorry for the guy or girl. Remind yourself that an abusive partner is not worth having someone to hug. It's not worth it to keep someone who treats you terribly, just for the sake of having someone. I just know it will be completely worth it to spot the right one, focus, and go after them.
Have you tried embracing that which makes up YOU!?
I have seen so many people that can only identify as a couple or THINK they need someone. You need to first be comfortable with just being you and you ALONE. Only then should you even consider looking for someone else. If you do decide to look for that someone, understand that should be able to still maintain who you are and your wants and desires . . . This is key to a healthy long lasting relationship.
So you're on your own . . . Go with it and GROW with it . . . No sadness required.
Try loving yourself.
This too shall pass.
For when the flower blooms,
the bees come uninvited.