I have been recently talking to someone and the connection we have is already amazing I feel SK safe and secure with him like I belong next to him. I feel like he is my soulmate, but I'm 15 is this possible?

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PJ Stein answered

Meeting your soul mate at that age is extremely rare. What is most likely is you have met the person who is  your "first love". It is a strong connection and one that is cherished throughout your life. But it is not soul mate worthy. At 15 you still have a lot of growing up yet to do.

I  say this all with the presumption that this person is within a year or two of your age. If they are older than that then they can be manipulating you, or it maybe a one sided relationship.

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Dumb Goat answered

"Soulmates" do not exist. Nobody is made for one another. People may be more compatible with certain people, but nobody's meant to be.

I wouldn't get to, let's day, dependent on him. It's important to always keep rational and able to spring back on your feet if something happens between you two.

I'm not saying he's untrustworthy, it's just always worth being prepared to take the worst and to get back up.

You can still be in a position that you're willing to help him and he's willing to help you, with strong trust, but that doesn't require you feeling that you are meant for each other and that things can't be right if you two aren't together.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

It's not uncommon to be smitten with a new love interest especially at your age. The truth is .. You don't know enough about him to make that conclusion. You are only beginning to get to know each other. Because your relationship is so new it's quite possible you both are "on your best behaviour "  and not quite ready to show your true colours quite yet.  So, really, you have only seen what he has allowed you to see in terms of his behaviour.  That is no where near enough information to form an informed opinion. 

Give it time and let your relationship develop into what it's meant to be .. Don't rush into labels as you may find as time goes on things are nothing like they seem. Perception is reality.. Over time perception changes.

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