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Should I feel guilty for dumping a guy and getting a restraining order against him? His exes Bc told me that he cheated more than 10x and sent me screenshots. Dude is 18 and I'm 15 and a half. He lies and manipulates, he's hit me and called me names.

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Rooster Cogburn Profile
Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

I don't think you should feel guilty at all. First off, he's too old for you and a person like that rarely changes his ways. You're safer with that restraining order and I'm sure it makes your parents feel safer also. Move on from that kind of trash and meet a boy your own age and just enjoy your youth.

Dance like a gypsy Profile

That entire relationship was illegal. He shouldn't be hitting you, he clearly has problems. Don't feel guilty for protecting yourself.

Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

Not only do you have nothing to feel guilty about, you are also too young to be in that kind of a relationship.  Perhaps you should consider finishing being a kid before you put yourself into an adult situation.

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

He is a classic abuser. You are protecting yourself. And by getting it on record that he is an abuser may help someone else later on. There is absolutely nothing to feel guilty about.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Of course you shouldn't feel guilty .. Exactly what could you be guilty of ?  He has (obviously) proven himself to be an untrustworthy partner .. Not to mention he has assaulted you.  Abuse is always a cause for concern .. IMMEDIATE concern.

No .. Do not feel guilty for dumping his pathetic ass .. You don't even need to explain yourself .. He doesn't even deserve that!  Get yourself out of that situation and learn from it.  It is soo easy to become a victim .. Learn from this experience and NEVER allow yourself to make that mistake again.  Get to know someone BEFORE you commit to them .. Get to know who they 'really ' are as an individual so you can make an informed decision about entering into a committed relationship.

This guy should be reported for assaulting you .. I'm thinking he will also have to answer some very intriguing questions about what he (an adult) is doing with a 15 yr old (a child).  I'm sure the police will find that issue VERY interesting.

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