Asked out this girl. She told me she has plans. I teased her about cancelling plans and going out with me. She said next time. Should I suggest a new date right away or just ask her again later?


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Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

Hey, Julie, I'd love to go to the movies with you. Let me know when you're free - maybe, this weekend?

If you want her to break a date with someone just to go out with you, be prepared to have the same thing happen to you. That's just bad juju, if you cannot wait for someone to be free.

Barb Cala Profile
Barb Cala answered

I might wait a bit and ask her again.  It all depends if you think she really has plans or might not be interested in going out with you. 

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

"Next time" as her reply indicates to me that while the issues is closed for the moment (for any one of a number of positive reasons that do not involve you at all), the next time would be a brand new situation.

I would definitely ask her again, but not right away.

Danae Hitch's suggestion works for older people  (20's or so).

The problem with doing that if you are younger is that you are really forcing here to determine when the date is going to take place (even though that is not your intent).

She might come to resent that.

Perry Nuttal Profile
Perry Nuttal answered

Hmm, this is a difficult one.

1. If you ask her straight away, at least if she is not really interested she'll say no again and you can put it behind you.

2. If you don't ask her straight away, this might build up curiosity in her, as some girls are attracted to guys who are harder to obtain.

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