Do you know someone involved in a Domestic Abuse situation? Are you?

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John Doe answered

I don't know anyone currently....unfortunately, I put myself into that category. Not physical as much as emotional and mental abuse. I wasted many years of my life, 17 to be exact, thinking that the things that were happening to me and in my relationship, (I call it a relationship loosely....I can do that now) were normal, no friends, no phone calls, isolated, everything controlled down to the half hour lunch I got at work. If I didn't "check in" while I was working, something was "going on" that's just the beginning. I feel for those people who have their identities taken from them in the guise of a relationship. Street Angel, home devil.

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Skip  Gentry
Skip Gentry commented
I lived through the same thing.
John Doe
John Doe commented
You come out the other side a wiser person.....took me a while to become ok with myself. I still find myself having a hard time with things like picking up shifts at work or having to stay over at work to finish my job....can't tell you how many nights I spent the entire night arguing over something that in "normal" relationships doesn't cause any strife.
Jann Nikka
Jann Nikka commented
Yep
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Skip Gentry answered

I got married at 23. That was the worse mistake I ever made. He was an alcoholic and wife beater. My life was very similar to Angela's. If I hadn't got out when I did, I would have had a short life.

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