Hey internet. So I met this guy online and we've been talking for a few weeks now. We're planning on meeting soon and going on our first date but we can't seem to come up with any ideas. Any suggestions besides dinner and a movie?


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Jann Nikka Profile
Jann Nikka answered

No first date movie, you don't know this man. All good ideas here. Yin has a very good one, about tell someone, I say tell a couple of someones and let him know you told family and friends.

No dark or isolated places far from your home.

Absolutely none of his friends on the date. 

Drive your car to the meeting. 

Don't take him home.

Go to the mall and sit. 

AnnNettie Paradise Profile

It is safer to stick with a dinner and a movie. In this way, you are surrounded by people. Do not isolate yourself. Better safe, than sorry later!

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Jann Nikka
Jann Nikka commented
Hi That's not my question and I couldn't find what I was looking for @, that's why I turned to you for some information. Thanks have a happy day.
AnnNettie Paradise
Sorry, I do not understand your question. There are no Jehovah's Witnesses Kingdom. The Bible speaks about God's Heavenly Kingdom (or Government) in which Jesus taught us to pray for in Matthew 6:9,10. Have a wonderful day as well. :)
Jann Nikka
Jann Nikka commented
AnnNette, You didn't give me a chance to ask my questions, before you started giving me answers. In fact you'd given me two answers and quote Bible verses and I haven't even ask the questions.
Its should have read Jehovah's Witnesses and God's Kingdom. 😎
Anyway, thanks and I'm moving on. See you later.
Michael Poland Profile
Michael Poland answered

Get a background check.

Don't go alone.

You may never be seen or heard from again.

Your life is worth it, Right????

Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

A coffee shop ie busy public place, and take a friend so she can sit on another table and keep an eye out for you.

Sheerluck Holmes Profile

I'd say go out for coffee, get to know him in person, then some ideas are doing a sport, visiting several shops, going to some type of game.

Darik Majoren Profile
Darik Majoren answered

First of all it's Mr. Internet to you . . Kidding

Since it IS first date and it was started on the internet, perhaps something very public. If it's warm where you live maybe coffee at a nice diner or coffee shop, and then miniature golf. How about a walk through a museum and have an ice cream sundae at a popular restaurant or Ice Cream stand . . . If it's cold, a well lit bowling alley, or if you are so inclined ice skating as possible activities.

First date should keep it lite and public, with opportunities to see if you're interested in a second date. We are looking for "Chemistry" first . . . Then we can get a bit closer and start descending into the layers of persona. 

Slow and steady . . .

Casey Wright Profile
Casey Wright answered

A coffee shop/cafe/bakery is always nice. Also, breakfast dates are surprisingly fun. Just maybe not for a first date.

Maybe instead of dinner and a movie you can try a movie, then lunch? If you see the movie first, it will give you something to talk about afterwards in case things get awkward.

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