Why does she want my attention so bad? This girl goes on drastic measures to get my attention and I'm not sure why. Before you jump to conclusions I'd like to say we're both female and I didn't reject her in any way


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Without any other information, I'm going to make a guess here. If I'm wrong, just put a comment in under my answer and I'll try and help more.

If I were to guess, I'm going to guess that this girl doesn't have many friends, if any at all. She's using "drastic" measures to get your attention because she probably feels you would be a good friend.

Even if you don't like her, you can at least be kind to her. There's enough bullying and mean treatment of others in the world so you don't need to add to it.

Ask her questions about what she likes to do, what her interests are, what she enjoys doing. This is to help you help her. If she likes to play chess, for example, does your school offer a chess club? If she likes to sing, has she joined the choir?

If she is not sure what she likes to do, point her in the direction of the guidance counselor's office. They generally have a ton of information on clubs and such in their office.

You are doing this to help her make new friends with people that have similar interests. It also teaches you how to help someone you may not particularly like but knowing that it's the right thing to do.

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