He sounds like a keeper!!!!!
Bf has a baby by his ex girlfriend. So he doesn't want anymore kids right now. But I'm pregnant. Scared to tell him. :-( Help?
If he doesn't want kids ... He should either keep it in his pants, or use protection.
It's up to YOU whether you want to have the baby or not. He has no say in the matter, at this point.
Furthermore, if you choose to have the baby, you should start looking for a family lawyer NOW ... So you'll be ready to serve support papers on him. Because quite honestly - he IS going to leave you.
Well, obviously lecturing you about how NOT to get into that predicament isn't going to work, that being said, it is unthinkable and unfair to not tell this man he has a child! I can't imagine what I would feel like if someone kept that kind of information from me, and took that away from me without me knowing anything about it. Can you live the rest of your life knowing this? Just tell him sweetie, it's his right to know....if he decides to leave he does, but at least your conscience will be clear....rest of your life may be a very long time.
