It takes time. Sorry, he didn't love you. But I would like to congratulate you for not settling. You obviously think about yourself enough to not put up with someone who doesn't love you. Good for you. Knowing that you are strong and that you made the right decision, should help a little. Good luck to you.
It is just going to take some time. You have already made a big step in the right direction, but moving forward, and away from something that wasn't right. So why not continue on that path? Find something you would like to do? Take a hobby class like photography, or cooking? Plan a trip with a friend, even if it is just a weekend somewhere. In other words, focus on you, and find what makes you happy.