I'm a guy, but let me tell you, every lady has their own individual ideas so I mean there would be no particular routine, then all you gotta do is being yourself, & after all, never try to take others attention. Live for yourself not people, as you live for yourself, see what satisfy you the most & ask yourself, what's the appropriate action that each human need to take about their appearance & physical attraction? Then do that, but i'll tell you about my idea in general
1.Wash your cloths properly & keep it clean
2.Shower properly
3.You can use perfumes to help to smell more satisfying.
4.Wash your hands & face properly throughout the day
5.Have proper haircut & always keep your hair brushed
6.Take care of small hairs around your face, nose,ear,around forehead even neck etc. .
7.Cut & brush your nails on a weekly basis.
8.Brush your teeth few times daily & you can also use mouth freshener to help more.
9.Wear appropriate cloths for each place you're involve.
10.Work out & do gym (for a good health & that gives you a worked out physical shape as well with suit terms of how your body works)
In my opinion all of the actions above is somehow necessary for humans for sharpness of their appearance regardless of gender. Only doing gym is just a very personal decision & if you decide to impress someone by anyhow, remember all of these mean nothing with a ugly personality. Personality always come first.