To you ladies, what kind of hobbies would you feel happy if guys ask you to do together as a date? For instance, playing pool.

I liked playing pool, but I know a lot of women that don't. There is also bowling, or cooking classes, or ballroom dancing, biking, hiking, kayaking. It all depends on the woman, and your location. I live in FL so outdoor activities are a year round thing, which isn't true for most of the US.

I'm no lady but when I started competing in triathlon in 1982 Mrs Didge decided she wanted to do it too.

Considering the amount of time involved in training for three events, and the amount of pressure that put on marriages, "divorce" is unofficially listed as a triathlon injury. When Mrs D trained right alongside me I became the envy of every triathlete on the circuit.

She was pretty good, too. We were in our 40s when we started but she was the State Veteran Women's Champion in 1986.

Of course, Gosuke, that doesn't exactly answer your question except to say that women can do anything their men can do. If they enjoy it.