How to ask a pretty girl for a date?


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El Lly Profile
El Lly answered

Before asking a girl out on a date, there are a few things you need to take time to gauge.

Firstly, is she interested in you at all? There will be little clues that indicate whether or not she is, in her body language and also in her verbal language. How does she communicate with you? Is she flirty? Does she hold eye contact with you?

If you think there's a chance she's interested in you, the hard part is out of the way. Now all you have to do is ask. The best way to do this is in confidence, don't ask her friend to ask her, just own it.

If you don't feel confident enough to take the plunge, try asking for her number first and getting to know her over text/calls. This will give you a better chance of familiarising yourself with her and thus her asking her to meet with you.

Getting to know her first is a good idea, because it will also help you with two further problems:

  • Deciding where to go and what to do on a date
  • Knowing what to talk about when you're on your first date

Niki ta Profile
Niki ta answered

One thing I need to say. How does pretty make a difference on how you ask them out...? Anyways I agree with everyone else's answers.

Rich Marzetti Profile
Rich Marzetti answered

just get up the nerve to ask her. And then do it. And then thats off your chest and finished.

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

First, quit putting the cart before the horse here. Try to be friends first as every great relationship starts out as friends first and then grows from there. Also you need to do your homework here to impress her. This works at any age and really does work, do your homework and find out all her likes and dislikes and then find some of the likes you both have in common and build a relationship off those. Once you find some likes, approach her and say that you understand that shes into whatever and so are you and you were wondering if you two could get together later at McDonalds or wherever as you have some questions you would like to ask her about this like.  You are on your own from there but build upon that like and become good friends and the rest will follow on its own.  This works for boys and girls at any age so remember this as it works.  Don't rush nor force her into anything but be the perfect Gentleman and take your time here.  Good luck and Merry Christmas.

Tiara Gordon Profile
Tiara Gordon answered

First you have to become her friend or at least get to know her a little bit. And before you ask her out make sure you do the following:

Compliment her (not everyday or every other day) when she least expects it or when she feels like she looks bad.

And it's okay to be scared at sometimes but it's also okay to to be outgoing and be unexpected... But also don't be crazy stupid unexpected.

I know because it's how mine was to me... And he is perfect.

Rachel Anon Profile
Rachel Anon answered

Just ask her on a date out of the blue. Some girls still like the old fashioned actually getting to know each other on dates instead of over text messages. Let her know you're interested first.

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