Hi,
My first love still lives in the South where I grew up and I went to see him after almost twenty something years and he was married with children, I went to see his mother and he happened to come in while I was there.
He was shocked, told me I looked the same, only thing my hair was more gray, I was born with a patch of gray hair, anyway he came to see me and he said he has never gotten over me and why did I leave, he would have married me, but I knew it couldn't happen he had problems and his father ran his life, so I left.
Some part of me wanted to know if he ever thought about me, and he did, one day he came to my grandmother's house and we kissed, and he told me then he could never be around me alone again, because he still had that feeling for me. I also found out from my step-father he could come over to his house to see when was I coming home to visit and that I will always be his first love and he would always love me no one would or could ever take my place in his heart, I'll be there until the day he dies.
So, after I found that out I have his phone number and his address, but I can't call him it would be too hard, because he will always be my first love as well, I don't want to interfere in his life. Be honest with yourself why you want to contact him, if it's only to say hi and ask how his life turned out okay, but you can find that out through friends and family. Think before you act.
My first love still lives in the South where I grew up and I went to see him after almost twenty something years and he was married with children, I went to see his mother and he happened to come in while I was there.
He was shocked, told me I looked the same, only thing my hair was more gray, I was born with a patch of gray hair, anyway he came to see me and he said he has never gotten over me and why did I leave, he would have married me, but I knew it couldn't happen he had problems and his father ran his life, so I left.
Some part of me wanted to know if he ever thought about me, and he did, one day he came to my grandmother's house and we kissed, and he told me then he could never be around me alone again, because he still had that feeling for me. I also found out from my step-father he could come over to his house to see when was I coming home to visit and that I will always be his first love and he would always love me no one would or could ever take my place in his heart, I'll be there until the day he dies.
So, after I found that out I have his phone number and his address, but I can't call him it would be too hard, because he will always be my first love as well, I don't want to interfere in his life. Be honest with yourself why you want to contact him, if it's only to say hi and ask how his life turned out okay, but you can find that out through friends and family. Think before you act.
