Don't lose it when your 14. Wait till your at least 16. It does hurt. It hurts worse if the guy has a big penis. And, you will bleed. But, wait till you fall in love to loose it. Cause, regretting losing your virginity is the worse feeling in the world. And, if you do end up having sex, make sure your on birth control. Like my mom always says "No glove no love" Which means if you don't have a condom then don't have sex because, birth control doesn't protect you against STD's. It also takes a month for the birth control to take effect. So, don't have sex then either.
So, make sure you've been on birth control for at least a month before you have sex just to make it safe in case the condom breaks. Because, that does happen.
So, make sure you've been on birth control for at least a month before you have sex just to make it safe in case the condom breaks. Because, that does happen.