Is there a normal age for a teenager to lose there "V-Card?" For a girl? I feel like want to have sexual intercourse. But the thing I am mostly scared or worried about is the pain, and what it does to my body. I am 14?

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Katie Bug Profile
Katie Bug answered
Don't lose it when your 14. Wait till your at least 16. It does hurt. It hurts worse if the guy has a big penis. And, you will bleed. But, wait till you fall in love to loose it. Cause, regretting losing your virginity is the worse feeling in the world. And, if you do end up having sex, make sure your on birth control. Like my mom always says "No glove no love" Which means if you don't have a condom then don't have sex because, birth control doesn't protect you against STD's. It also takes a month for the birth control to take effect. So, don't have sex then either.
So, make sure you've been on birth control for at least a month before you have sex just to make it safe in case the condom breaks. Because, that does happen.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I honestly think you should wait till you are older. I know that's what everybody says, but losing your V-Card (BTW love that term) is something that you will remember for the rest of your life. It needs to be something that you look back on and are happy with your decision. Make sure it is with the right person at the right time. Don't blow it. Slow down and give yourself time. There's no rush. You aren't missing anything that you can't learn later.
Brittany Schlatt Profile
Well, when you can handle the consequences, such as pregnancy, possibility of an STD, a broken heart, etc, then to me, you're ready. But, I think after marriage is best.
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tori mcpherson answered
There is many things it can do to your body, you could get pregnant you could get a STD, HPV/ Aids, Infections, Etc.. All kind of bad things could come from it. There is no certin age just be sure you are ready and mature enought I lost my verginity last year I was 15 turning 16. I was ready I am also still with the guy who took my verginity we have been together for a year also. He was my first and only! (: It will hurt not terribly bad but yea it does there will be bleeding. Don't be worried about that though it stops eventually I bleed for about 1 hour.. I actually think you are to young but I really can't say much. Just make sure your parents know about this so you can get some condoms and get put on birth control. Now I kno that's going to be hard just tell em that your growing up maturing and one day you may want to have sex so you would like to be fully ready when it is time. They will appreicate you for that. But good luck. And just wait till you know it's time sex aint all it's worked up to be yea it feels good for you but you are taking a life time risk for 30 min of sex!!
Taylor Brookes Profile
Taylor Brookes answered

This is a massive problem among young people. They think they're so grown up but you're still a child. Irrelevant of how you feel, you're under the age of consent, so it would be illegal. Personally, I think 16 is too young, but that's just my opinion. You should wait at least until you are 16, probably older.

Courtney Wilson Profile
Courtney Wilson answered
Not really, just wait until you're in love with the guy. I made the mistake of not waiting...
★it only hurts at first, then it starts to feel good. You will bleed because he "pops your cherry" and therefore you aren't a virgin anymore.
I guess the pain part depends on how big he is.
★just use a condom, it will help protect you against STD's and pregnancy.
★don't have sex on your period, there are more chances of getting pregnant,and its gross. Lol not trying to b rude.
thanked the writer.
Brittany Schlatt
Brittany Schlatt commented
There are two problems there. You don't need a hymen to be a virgin, not all girls have them and you can loose it easily from falling, etc. And, a condom does not always protect you.
Courtney Wilson
Courtney Wilson commented
I'm just covering the basics.
I know, I said that using a condom will 'help' protect against pregnancy and STD's, I didn't say it was absolute.

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