My Girlfriend Came Home With Very Wet Knickers And Bruises To The Front Of Her Thighs. She Said She Had Stayed At Her Friends All Night. Do You Think She Is Having An Affair?


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Oscar De La Huerte Profile
Based on the circumstances you've described, I can see why you'd have suspicions.

Whilst the signs that she's cheating might be there, though, I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet.

I would recommend sitting down and talking to your girlfriend frankly.

My girlfriend comes home with wet knickers The first issue to address is her wet underwear.

As I'm sure you're aware, there are a number of reasons why a woman's undergarments might be wet.

Yes, sexual excitement or activity does cause females to produce natural lubricants down below - but the dampness in her underwear could also be down to:

  • urine
  • menstruation
  • the vagina naturally cleaning itself out (this might also cause a white discharge)
  • sweating
  • infection
Just thinking about it for a second, it'd make sense that your partner might be too embarrassed to tell you that one of the above was the cause of her dampness.

My girlfriend comes home with bruises on her thighs

If your girlfriend has bruises on her thighs, it can be easy to assume that she's been having rough sex with some stranger behind your back.

But before you start thinking the worst, take some time to consider the following:

  • She may have fallen and injured herself
  • She many have been sexually assaulted
As far as sexual assault goes, it is very possible that your girlfriend might not want divulge that kind of information to you straight away.

Before you go accusing her of infidelity, I'd make 100% sure that she hasn't been raped or seriously sexually-assaulted.

How would you feel if something like that happened to you, and then you came home and were accused of cheating?

As far as infidelity goes, you'll never know unless you either catch her in the act - or she confesses.

So, the only real way you'll know is by letting her do her thing and following her - or you could try sitting and talking to her like an adult.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I agree with Kazza1994. Although there is probably a very logical reason for her to come home in that state. You might just be jumping to conclusions. Just let her know you are there for her.
Sharron Prestcott Profile

I think she may have been assaulted and is afraid to tell anyone.  Most rapes are not reported.  You should just let her know you're there for her.

Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

You need to know if he or she really cheats  so you can be certain about your thoughts.  You contact Smith via his gmail account( Williamsdhackghost at i'm sure he'd help

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