You can feel lonely and need someone to talk to. You need someone to talk to about certain thing that you can not tell other people and your family will miss you more than anything in the world. So you shouldn't live away from your family. You can have a heart attack and no one is there to help you and you can not get to the phone intime. So move back with your family. That is the best thing for you to do right now. I'm glad I could help.
You will be sad. Everyday when your with your family so lively you find it dull alone at home. Sure you may have the TV for yourself but sometimes you might miss the person whom normally watch TV with you.
I live 1000 miles away from all my family. The only family near me are my 2 kids. I miss all my family, and worry about them everyday. My life gets so busy at times that I don't talk to my family on the phone enough. When my sister was in the hospital a year ago suffering from a severe stroke, I couldn't be there for her. One of my closest friends passed away a while back and I was unable to attend the funeral as I couldn't miss classes. I was not able to travel home this summer because of the gas prices, and next summer I will be unable to go home because of school. It will be 2 years before I can see any of my family again. If I had it to do over again...I would NOT move away from my family. If you're thinking about moving away from your family... don't do it.
The worse thing you can do is move far away from your family. If you do, then your friends will become your family. You are constantly worrying everyday about your family, from the weather to a condition or situation. If you happened to harbor good friends, they will be there for you when you have a problem and have no one to turn to, otherwise you will find yourself alone. You are tentative to pick up the phone to call your family so they don't notice in your voice tone you have a problem and then they start worrying without being able to do anything for you because you're so far away. If you need money, it's going to cost them quite a bit to send you that money. If you're ill, trust me, you will find yourself very much alone going through delicate recuperation without anyone tending to you. The best thing you can ever do is stay close to home and family. Everyone has their own quirks, including yourself. If you think it's hard dealing with your family, it's way harder dealing with the expectations of a stranger. If you don't have really good friends, should you need help of a so called friend, believe me, they will be expecting whatever favor they do for you to return the favor back to them, especially if they had to nurse you, that's if you can find anyone that will do it and help you out of a difficult situation. For your own sake, stay close to your family. You don't want to go through all of this as I already have. That's why I can tell you about it so vividly.
