I really like Hariku821's answer. But I would go further and say that beauty or handsomeness is not so necessary as much as looking as good as you can. This doesn't mean taking a lot of time or money on appearance, but always being clean, smelling fresh (not drowning in cologne, FRESH, as in clean and fresh), hair neat and clean, clothes not all wrinkled or dirty. If you are very shy you might try to think of situations in which you would have some confidence. Learn as much as you can about as much as you can so you have contributions to make in conversations. Don't hog the spotlight of course, but just be able to speak intelligently about most subjects. Smile. Looking friendly can do wonders. If you think someone is rejecting you, try not to take it too personally. That person just isn't as ready as you are to have a meaningful relationship that is not based on shallow values. One day she will be, and right now someone else IS. Make sure you are getting enough sleep, healthy food, fresh air and exercise because you would not believe how much that affects your appearance. NEVER make fun of someone. And if a girl shows an interest in you and you do not find her as attractive or appealing as someone else, try to think how she feels. Give her a chance because she very well might be that princess in disguise waiting to blossom with the right guy to care for her. Hope this helps you some, and I wish you luck.
