Why Are Some People Heartless?


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William Clinton Profile
William Clinton answered
Because they have a low self esteem. They have to pick on others to make themselves feel better. Bullying gives them power over others.
Stand up against bullies and it's not so much fun for them.
Been there and done that
DeAnna Lee Profile
DeAnna Lee answered
Everyone has a conscious but some don't acknowledge it as much as others do.
Upbringing also has a lot to do with how a person treats another. Compassion does not thrive in a lot of people who may feel anger at the world and walk around with nothing but negativity. You can tell a lot by what comes out of some one's mouth and I would say if you don't like what they speak, stay away and find a friend in a kinder speaking person.
thanked the writer.
Anonymous commented
Some people are Heartless because they don't have God in their lives, Without God there is nothing Balance is the key in this Universe and some people will never find that. You can't have love without hate, and you without me. Those who are, " Hearless " people are always putting themselves first. The, "ME" factor is always first and there's not enough heart left for others They flew fster thsn thir "l
carolle cheng
carolle cheng commented
Sometimes people tend to be heartless because some people based their being hard to other people in what they've experienced in the past, maybe a certain trauma or that makes them heartless. But I just want you to know that in my own opinion, even people are heartless, they still have a good part of themselves that is good.
martha commented
Yes they do not have Jesus in their lives, but also their parents may not have even taught them kindsee and compassion. I think some people bully others because they themselves are actually a coward and have low self esteem. But being a bully is totally unacceptable!
Robyn Rothman Profile
Robyn Rothman answered
Sometimes bullies try to intimidate weaker individuals because it makes them feel they are better than their victims. Maybe there's someone at home who bullies them. If someone does it to them, and they can't do anything about it, they turn their own anger and frustration on others. Some just get a sick satisfaction by intimidating others. And there are some who have no sense of compassion. Maybe nobody showed them what it's like to be sensitive to the feelings of other people. Some people simply have no tact and no feelings for anyone but themselves. It's sad.
patrick mc mullan Profile
Most bullies have family issues that they feel powerless to address at home. So they transmit their angst onto others. It becomes ingrained into their personalities and in a lot of cases if it goes unchecked it can lead them into serious crime.
Cheryl Regina Villanueva Profile
Humans are inherently good. However, there are persons...as young as little children at that...already manifest signs of cruelty. This is an environmental factor and breeding. When a child grows in a situation where all the child can experience is violence or meanness, there is no reason why the child grows to be the same as what he has grown with. ..and the rest is history! There is an analogous saying: "Hate begets Hate; Love begets Love".
michelle cherry Profile
michelle cherry answered
I don't think that bullys realize that they could be part of the fun. I think that they are scared, or shy, to put up a defensive is all they know. Low self esteem problems are usually involved. I have been a bully at times, but it was because I was unsure of myself, and covered it with a defensive show stopper. I had a sever tragedy happen, and it really showed me my place. I did a lot of soul searching and that's what I came up with. Like a wild animal, terrorized, acts out with aggression. Only because he's scared...
lover boy Profile
lover boy answered

Sometimes a person's heart breaks, so they change. I am in this faze.

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