lakeesha Hennessy Williams answered
If you want to convince your wife to have a threesome, there are two ways to approach the matter:
If you're feeling brave, just bring it up one night before bedtime. Just watch out that being so forward doesn't make you sound disrespectful!
For a more subtle approach, try casually dropping the question into conversation as a joke. For example, you could be sitting in a bar with friends when suddenly the topic of conversation turns to sex.
This is an opportunity to test the waters by bringing up the idea of a threesome. Ask your friends what they think of threesomes first (this will take the attention and pressure off your wife), and then slyly turn to your wife and say something like, 'what would you think about that?'
If she replies with a, 'no way - that sounds gross!', then you can easily pretend you were just joking. If she seems uncertain or even tempted, though, then this is the cue to probe a little further.
Getting my wife to have a threesome Another option would be to try and engineer a menage-a-trois situation. Just be wary that there's the potential for some serious awkwardness if you choose this option.
Try and pick someone who you think your wife is comfortable with (this may even be more important than sexual attraction). Have a few drinks to loosen the nerves, and then start to crank up the sexual element slowly.
Dancing is a great way to break boundaries because it involves physical contact. Try getting both your wife and the third party to dance together, then try to get involved yourself.
The important things is to gauge your wife's reaction. If she seems as if she's having fun, then keep going - but if she's obviously uncomfortable, then you may need to concede defeat.
- You can be upfront and talk about it
- You can subtly coax her into it.
If you're feeling brave, just bring it up one night before bedtime. Just watch out that being so forward doesn't make you sound disrespectful!
For a more subtle approach, try casually dropping the question into conversation as a joke. For example, you could be sitting in a bar with friends when suddenly the topic of conversation turns to sex.
This is an opportunity to test the waters by bringing up the idea of a threesome. Ask your friends what they think of threesomes first (this will take the attention and pressure off your wife), and then slyly turn to your wife and say something like, 'what would you think about that?'
If she replies with a, 'no way - that sounds gross!', then you can easily pretend you were just joking. If she seems uncertain or even tempted, though, then this is the cue to probe a little further.
Getting my wife to have a threesome Another option would be to try and engineer a menage-a-trois situation. Just be wary that there's the potential for some serious awkwardness if you choose this option.
Try and pick someone who you think your wife is comfortable with (this may even be more important than sexual attraction). Have a few drinks to loosen the nerves, and then start to crank up the sexual element slowly.
Dancing is a great way to break boundaries because it involves physical contact. Try getting both your wife and the third party to dance together, then try to get involved yourself.
The important things is to gauge your wife's reaction. If she seems as if she's having fun, then keep going - but if she's obviously uncomfortable, then you may need to concede defeat.
