I Am Married At The Age Of 19. Can Somebody Tell Me If I Did The Right Thing?


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yolanda jones Profile
yolanda jones answered
Well look at it this way, if you and your spouse know that there are ups and down and it will get hard before it gets better. And know when to listen and when to talk. Never go to bed mad. But just remember to take one day at a time. These are from someone that knows I married at 18 years old and have had my share of ups and downs. But I have been married for 17 years come this June. So hang in there.
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D R Hayes answered
I was married at 19, myself. Depends on the reasons you married. If you did it because you're pregnant, want to get out from under parental control, think it makes you an adult, etc. Then it was definitely the wrong thing. And wrong for a lot of reasons. If you married because you both feel you are soul mates then you did the right thing.
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Sadia Batool answered

Well a lot many girls get married in young age. That is not a big deal. But some of them think that it was unfair to them, someone has snatched their freedom and adolescent life's enjoyments. You are lucky you have got someone loving and caring very close to you at an early age. Now you think that it was right or not? So let me tell you that it was right if you have accepted it by heart and you have enjoyed it then it was very right otherwise it must be a tough task for you to manage things at an early age.

Look one has to follow what her parents decide for her. Women have to do a lot in this regard. It is good you followed the will of your parents or whoever but you married soon. In my opinion, it was not a wrong thing. One should enjoy whatever he/she is facing in life. It is life and we have to take it as it is coming to us. So don't think that it was either a right or wrong decision but try to enjoy it the way you can. Life is like this, we can't change things but can enjoy and make it beautiful the way we can.
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titilayo tsqure answered
I don't have much to say, I would like to know are you a guy or a girl. If it's a guy, then its not a bad for him to marry early if the parent are rich and they want their son to get married.
But as for a lady she has to face her study and plan for her future, not that she cannot have a boyfriend but she should know what she is doing. Even if she is getting married early, a girl should plan out her future carefully.

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