It sounds like you're in the doghouse, but don't worry because moms can never be mad for too long - of course, how long depends on how badly you've upset her.
However, if you did something really bad to make her angry, there are many ways to get back in to her good books. First things first - give her space. She may need some time to think about what happened and giving her breathing space may allow her to calm down and de-stress. Once you've given her at least half a day (or few days, depending on how bad the situation is), why not ask to talk to her? Many people may not realize this, but by simply sitting down and talking about the situation can help a lot.
You may find that she'll really appreciate it because it will give everyone a chance to get things off their chest and clear the air. The most important thing to remember is to take in what she says. Although you may not agree with it, you can at least try to understand where she is coming from - your mom will really appreciate the fact that you respect her enough to listen to what she has got to say.
Win yourself some brownie points by making her breakfast-in-bed. You don't have to be the best chef in the world - chances are, she'll be so overwhelmed and happy by your efforts that she'll be more willing to forgive and forget sooner than later. If you're not too confident with face-to-face confrontation, you can always write your thoughts and apologize in a card or letter. However, you will have to face up to her at some point, and you can start off with giving her a nice bear hug to help break the ice.
Help out around the house, clean your room, do laundry etc WITHOUT having her tell you to.
If you were wrong, apologize and tell her you love her and appreciate all she does for you
believe me I am a mom
Well, every mother deals with it differently.
Here's what not to do!
1. NEVER start crying in-front of her, it usually just annoys them
2. A lot of you guys have been saying to give money. That is a terrible idea, She's your bloody mum!
3. If your in an argument with her, never start using physical content (may sound weird to some of you people)
4. Don't ignore her
What you should do!
1. Say sorry all the time
2. If your mum goes out for work etc, when she comes back, ask how was your day then ask if she wants tea, coffee etc.
3.Talking it out- this is probably the best thing to do. Unfortunately this doesn't work for some mothers.
After all she is your mother, you will not be mad with her forever. Just follow these steps and you will probably resolve your problems in not time, I have been through this!
Well for me I find it really hard I can't tell my mom I'm sorry until after an hour or so because I am so ticked off. But after letting my anger out I would go down stairs let her attitude come out on me and give her the lecture on how much I'm sorry and how I can make it up to her. I know how it feels when your mom gets you because mad and you want to break everything in sight but you know if you do your mom will get even more mad so wait a bit let you and her cool off for about an hour then go and tell you mom that you are extremely sorry she could understand or still be mad but either way at least you told her you were sorry.
Well best of luck to you!! (ps. Throw in a hug it helps) =)
When mums are annoyed, its tough, acctually, my mums pissed at me right now! The easyest way to win her back is simply wait it out for a few days, keeping out of her way and not talking much, then, make a kind gesture like; getting her jewlery; chocolate that says sorry on it, or just giving her a hug and a kiss, too show that you truly are sorry. /-:
Say sorry and then give her a hug and clean some stuff without her asking
Short and simple sometimes works
Cook, clean, do something that she likes you to do. Suprise her (only if she likes suprising)
Talk to her more. Actualy try to be her friend, for instanse maybe she's sitting in the TV room lookin lonely, go and sit there and watch TV with her. Try to make small talk like, "this show is funny", or "she's uglyyyy" That sort of thing. Also do some of her chores and help out EVERYWHERE. She will soon forgive you for whatever you did, hope I could help(:
When shes getting mad, try not to get mad back. Speek when spoke to. If she says something you really don't like in a non angry voice point it out.
If you are quiet and just acknowlege what she says, the argument shouldn't last as long. It'll help her be happy abit after faster.
As for after, help around the house, leave her alone for a few before you try to start small talk. Say sorry , she may apolgize bk and it'll ease things.
This seems to work for me. Just be as helpful as you can and listen the best you can, it'll get better faster that way.
Hope I helped
What ever you do don't cry cause she will feel she has control on you and will just make you more upset.
Don't talk to her for a little while then apologize and say that your really, really sorry and how can you make it up to her. She'll appreciate it and it usually works for me
Well, today I was being bullied badly at school so I was sulking around the house, and my mom got super mad. She was screaming and swearing at me because I didnt want to go back to school. It was pretty scary. But, a couple hours later after making a little small talk and helping around the house, I said "sorry" to her and she said she was sorry too :) So I suggest if your mom is mad at you try helping out and saying how sorry you are and asking if there is anything you can do to help her out.
Hope this helped!
I never do anything and my mom always gets ticked off for no reason. It's really frusturating. She always says I'm ungrateful and that is the farthest thing that I am. Everytime she buys me something I always say thank you. She always over reacts and everything I do is wrong. What do I do?
I don't kno what you guys are sayin. My mom does not get over her attitude in and hour. She holds grudges. For a long time. Like a couple days over something sooo irelevent. Like last night I came home "late" and shes stilll mad this morning. I'm 17 and she wants me home at 8 30...ummm no I don't think so. She wont even reason with me so I'm not appologizing. I want wrong. And even if I was to apologize she wouldnt accept it. Shes mean and she thinks that she is always right and she doesnt even have reasons for doing the things she does.
Let her be mad I don't care anymore am SO angry what did I do wrong nothing
Well for starters you should apologize for whatever you did. Give her a minimum of a hour to be alone and a maximum of 2 hours. Don't be afraid, she is your mom, I can bet you she will still love you just the same even for what you did. If you think your mother has over reacted to something very meaningless, than ask your dad or someone else in your house what happened before whatever you did. My mom has recently gotten mad at me because I kept on changing the date of when I wanted to have a sleepover with my friend, she was very annoyed and angry at me, then later my step dad had came in and told me that my mom was thinking about one of my sisters who has died. But if it really is a big thing try NOT to cry, it might get her more annoyed with you, and it can cause you to get mad and a fight with your mom will soon appear.
Hope this help and good look
Well sometimes I know but sometimes I don't like see right now I asked why are you still mad at me????? And all she says is I don't want to talk about!!! And I keep asking when and she says WHEN EVER I FEEL LIKE IT!!!!! In this case you should just let her cool down and when she is in a good mood lke watching her favorite show than you should say sorry and give her a huge hug that always works and if it doesn't well... Good luck!!!!!
Do what she says and if she gets you mad off hit a pillow
I just leave my mom alone...stay out of her way...just don't tangle with her or bother her....trust me...I know because I been there-done that-got a t-shirt and REALLY don't want to go back!=S
If you get your mom mad like I did say sorry to her and give a gift that she will always remember and she will be really happy.I should do that now.
My mom pissed me off. We were taking a walk and talking about things and she was only seeing one picture and she wasnt taking in what I was saying, so I got pissed off then we started fighting and now she is being a ... And we are not talking and she is trying to piss me off in little ways, she is annoying! How do I make her stop?
You just have to try to understand them... And listen to them and say yes I know I'm sorry to every question they ask you
I'm mad some1 help me I want to kill some1 and I feel like running away.
Well...my parents r divorced and I want to live with my mom. But my dad still has legal custody. My mom keeps asking y I want to live with her. So she called my step-mom and asked y I hate it there. My step mom started crying so my mom got P Oed...I told her I hate my dads house...she said its not a good enough excuse and wont get by to any judge. I got mad and hit the table...which knocked over her coffee...I thought "I'm dead". So I slammed the door and locked myself in my room...thats where I am right now...LOL! :D
Try to talk to her, and apologize.This will make her open up a little.Then give her a quick hug and if she is doing something like the dishes or some other chore parents do, ask if she needs any help.Also you can apologize, give her a quick hug and then do something that will make her happy, without having to be told. I hoe my advice helps
My mom has Mono and Strep and shes getting divorced....Nothing is working! I have been on tons of sites Oh But No, NOTHING!
I have 2sisters and A brother I'm 12 and the oldest what do I do?! She gets mad when I clean and she says your doing it wrong.....then when I tell my sister to just be quite fo ra minute PLEASE she said your not the mother!
I NEED HELP!
I'm not spoilt but when my mom gets angry at me I get so sarcastic and really annoying and she will say "why did I have to have such a dumb daughter?" and walk out. (the room not the house and leave forever) I know that means shes not angry anymore.
You can ask her to go shopping with her or help her out with somthing I'm sure that will make her happy also apoligize for what it made her mad as well she is still your mum and she loves you so she will forgive you. You can also make her laugh about somthing or some memmories that you remember I'm sure she will like that.
Communication is always key. Also, help out when needed.
If your mom is mad leave her alone don't talk to her
Give her a kiss and say to her 'love you mom'
Tell her that you won't do it again and be nice to her she has to forgive you sometime
Give your mom some flowers if it is a special day clean the full house make some food which she likes then sit down and tell her that you love her and you are very honest to me and I will be the same please can you forgive me
Well someone posted a rude comment on my facebook profile. I deleted it right away because I was afraid and that maybe if I deleted it nobody would see it and I would foget about it. We I guess on of my family members saw it before I deleted it. And my mom wants me to tell her every single thing. But I just wanted to forget a bout it. But she decided to look through my text on both my phone and iPod. And found a conversation between me and a boy. We played 20 questions ( not the clean way) and she saw it. And I'm 14 and haven't kiss a boy yet I'm not someone who would do anything with a boy. Not now at least. And she saw other conversations too. We had an hour. Talk. I said sorry and that it was a mistake. And didn't mean to do It but now I feel that I can't be the same around my family. At all. Half the time I just want to die because I have nobody to go and tell with out it getting around the neighbor hood or school. I just wish just a wish that non of this happened because now I feel like I should be depressed. And just do nothing because I know what she is thinking ( what a s**t she is, I can't stand it) but I'm not. What do I do?); please help any advice works!
Sit down with her and tell her that you are sorry for what you have done and hoe for forgiveness. I have had this happen to me many times and asked for forgiveness. You should always be honest to her, this will help her realize that she can trust you.
Try to wait it out or if your done just try it
Help her around the house, give her kisses and cuddles, say you love her
Apologize to her and show her that you realize what you did was a bad choice. Try to see if you can help her out in any way. As I mom, I would just be happy knowing my child realizes his mistakes and can learn from them.
Ok you make your mom mad and then you say mom I'm sorry and then cry saying mom I'm sorry and then you just be sad and she will say ok honey its ok babe
Listen everyone! You can make your mom not mad at you until she WANTS to be nice. Don't be a bitch to her and stay out of her way try not to fight and always agree on her side do work around the house and she will soon forget
Buy her some flowers or something day that she is pretty and give her a hug and a cup of tea and biscuits writ her a love sorry note. And tell her you really understand how wrong you were and how good she is.
You can make your mom happy by buying her an apologize gift and tell her how sorry you are.
You sometimes be really angry that you don't have the mood to apologize but still you have to.
Just keep saying sorry. Maybe get her a few nice things she likes, clean the house...
Write her a nice apology letter? :D
I let my mother cool off for a while then say sorry or Clean the house for her. Hugs and a kiss Do wonders sometimes. MAN UP hug and kiss your mom.
My mums mad at me two. Nothing here works! When my mums mad, it shows on her face. I love my mum but I can't even speek to her without getting a mouth-full. Please help me
I didn't fold the clothes rite away, so now mom won't even look at me. When I said thanx when she waz finished she said 'your not welcome'. Thats a stupid remark, but I feel really bad now. What do I do?
I think you should leave her alone for awile and let her chill out mabe give her a dollar
Yes some mums and dads think they know it all. If you make them mad in the morning make breakfast and give them a present or make them something and say sorry or draw a picture. what ever you did to them to make them mad at you like fighting with your brother or something tell them you won't do it again and when you say that you mean it remember ok. If that does not work leave a comment for me and I will tell you some more tips but better tips ok bye.xxx xxx
You should just wait a couple of minutes and if you are still mad punch a pillow......a couple minutes after that practice saying I'm sorry to her in the mirror and if you can't do it that means you are still mad at her.When you are ready let her know that you are trying to say sorry to her by pretending to hide from her in the hallway then go and apologize.
I came back from Camp then my mum wanted to see my camera and I showed it to her but when I got it out of my bag...IT WAS GONE....
I called the school
I called the camp place and the bus we came in but they can't find it...
Now my mum is crying cause we have all of our memories in it and I'm home alone with her and she is sleeping...
I want to talk to her but I feel scared...
And WHAT IF I can't FIND MY CAMERA.?
Leave her alone or give her some money and a kiss
Don't push her let her be for a wile then it should be ok
Can you post the reason she is mad. That might help us answer your question.
Apologize to her then say your really sorry.. Getting a gift helps too but it doesn't matter. I always argue with my mom.. It works wonders :D, but I'm not sure about others.
Breakfast in bed works every time
Heres 1 thing you can do leave her ALONE and don't sulk or cry because she gets more mad well mine does any way saying don't you DARE DO THAT so don't I say don't!!!! Hope it help
I wanted to go over my friends house and my mom got SO mad at me. I didn't cry, but even when I did do TONS of work around the house, she was STILL mad at me. What do I do now that I tried that?????
I don't know MY MOM IS A PHYSCOLOGIST AND A GUIDANCE COUNCELLOR SHE IS REAL HARSH ive failed 2 classes this year and she doesnt know about the 2nd but your an moron for even thinking about smoking
You must say sorry immediately or she'll get madder let her cool off then start being nice do not lose your temper! Make sure you stay in good contacts with your siblings or it could be worse apologize over and over until she gets sick of of it and yells you will be sad. But continue being nice and cry a little she loves you so she' ll get over it and try making an apology card.WARNING this may not work for boys
She burst out on my brothers friend and I went up and asked her what hapened? She told me and I said what if someone did that to zack?( my bro)
She said get your ass in the house! ( we were on the deck.) I walked in crying. So I tried telling her sorry and she said nothing. I think she was still pissed off at me. This is not really an answer but a heads up, if you ask a question like that to your mom, do not tell her sorry.
Apologize to her if you were wrong and if not apologize anyway it will make her happy, parents always think they are right, give her a hug .....the best to you
I tried everything I could do for her. I did a mistake on 11th of may and she is still mad at me. Pls help me. I go near her and hug her but she threatens she will slap me.
I think I would talk to her because now I have that problem so I don't know how to solve it. Can you guy help me?
Some1 help me please my mom got mad at me and my sister for not taking care of our dogs so now shes mad at us.
If your mom is mad at you the only way you can ever make her happy is to clean the house and when she sees you quickly say SORRY and I 100% guarantee you that she will be happy
I had an arguement with my mom only because she didn't let me go out to play because it was 7:00pm I tryed saying sorry but she didn't listen what do I do?
Yeah I said sorry to my mom already and she started cursing and I yelled at her.
All I did was get mad a t her then she got mad at me now were not talking so mad. I don't even want to see her face
My mom yells so much I will skip it for you
I had Q. And I kept asking about her signing a paper and she freaked out and got the belt!!???what do I do?
My mum found out I smoke and is really mad in her house what do I do?
Just don't listen to her ignore her and try to piss her off
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