Hold your head high and tell him goodbye. Then walk away. It will never get better. You already kniw this. It is written in your question. Abusers start out being the nicest people, but eventually their true colors come out. They will tell you they are sorry, and won't do it again, but they do. Eventually they will stop apologizing and start telling you it is your fault. So my best suggestion is to walk away. Better yet run. Do not give him anymore if your time or heart.
The nature of a person is more readily revealed over time. When we first meet, the "Packaging" is still alluring . . . Fresh and new. A few moments shared in time, we notice the façade wears thin, until what we truly are is exposed in those unguarded moments . . . This is where you get to weigh the cost to benefit ratio . . . Some things for you are deal breakers . . . Communicate effectively and decide. Someone else could be just around the corner that may best complete you.
Worlds longest fortune cookie, or just a rambling of misplaced wisdom?
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