My ex and I got back together but Im finding myself to get upset or mad over everything he does. Im pushing him away when I dont mean too. He isnt doing anything wrong?


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Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

Men are pretty straight forward, they usually say what they mean, they don't mind read, or interpret feelings.

"Do you want to go out?"

Means "Do you want to go out?"

If you want to go somewhere go.

Men don't usually date people they don't want to be with.

Stop listening to all the drama in your head, it's confusing, irritating and exhausting to others, not attractive or cute like it's shown on TV or film.  He sounds ok, and you will ruin this relationship if you don't stop over analysing. Next time your head starts, say "Stop!" and then do what you want to do, because life doesn't wait around, it's happening now.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

My advise is .. Grow up and stop playing games with this guy.  What exactly is it you you want him to do .. Kiss your feet, beg for your attention, hover over you?

I'm not sure what your history is with him .. Or for that matter any love related relationship .. But, either you are too emotionally immature or you simply don't really like this guy ... He's just convenient.

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Yin And Yang answered

You are angry at him for something therefore I don't think you were ready to get back into a relationship with him. You need to find forgiveness for him and heal before giving someone a second chance otherwise you are just gonna torture him like you are.

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sam laura answered

let me add more-

Its the smallest things that send me through the roof. Things like i feel as if he never wants to see me but yet hes asked twice and both times i havent gone to the group hang out and i dont know why. I regret not going bc i want to see him but something tells me if he doesnt text me and tell me he wants me to go then he really doesnt want me there. Im annoying him so bad and i want to stop. Im over thinking everything. Weve only been back to texting for two weeks and i know things take time. I need advice.

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Pyschology, answered

Unfortunately, it sounds like this relationship was never meant to be and you two should not have gotten back together as its worse now than before.  I think you realize this and are using any little thing he does as wrong as justification to breaking up a 2nd time but break up must happen before you two kill each other and its only  a matter of time.  Don't blame him for breaking up but just agree it isn't going to work and remain as friends but break up and move on.  Sorry to hear this but it does happen  and Merry Christmas

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