How to make yourself get over an ex? its been over a month of no contact and im stuck on this crying stage. he doesnt want me back. Im tired of feeling sad all the time. help.

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Yin And Yang answered

My friend, it takes time. It has only been a month. You really cared for him and it hurts. You have to allow yourself time to cry. If the crying turns into depression you may need a councillor to help you talk things out. You can not go under it, over it, or around it.... You can only go THROUGH it. You will get through this. ☺

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PJ Stein answered

Yin and Yang is right. You just have to give it time. Once you go through enough tissues and some ice cream, then you will get mad.  It will hit you that you deserve better. It will all work out in the end. Trust me on that. I had a guy break up with me after years of dating. It took a good six months to get over it. But when I did, I came out stronger and more sure of myself and what I wanted. I dated some more and then found someone who is 100 times better.

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Awe!!!!! Where are you guys wanting to go?
PJ Stein
PJ Stein commented
Haven't decided yet. Hubby wants to go some place we can drive to get there. January is an iffy month for driving.
Kelly Taylor
Kelly Taylor commented
Thank you and congrats on the upcoming anniversary! gives me hope that ill get over my ex and find someone who loves me back just as much as i love them.
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Cookie Roma answered

I agree that it will take time.  That said, you would likely find it helpful if you'd do something to get out of your own head.  Like do some kind of volunteer work.  Helping others can be the best therapy.

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