First of all "Good things come in small packages". No matter how stunningly good looking someone is that attraction wears off pretty fast after you have been with someone for a month or so. Have you ever heard the saying "He/She gets me"? It means that these 2 people are attracted to each other because they have fallen in love with the person not their hair colour or their clothes size.
Be yourself & don't try to imitate anybody else. Good luck.