my partner has suddenly stopped having sex with me and its even a chore to kiss me also I stay with him as I don't have anywhere to live and he is not cheating on me at least that's a good thing I feel like a celibate lodger?


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Darik Majoren Profile
Darik Majoren answered

The three "C's" is what is needed . . .



Why is "Sex - No Sex" an "I'll stay with him" . . . Thing?

Apparently, you've let this go on too long, and now it is resentment that you have. Engage in discussion . . . Healthy discussion is sharing feeleings good or bad.

Barb Cala Profile
Barb Cala answered

This is something you and your partner need to work out.  If you can't, then it's time to move on.  You deserve better, don't you think?

Walt O'Reagun Profile
Walt O'Reagun answered

Maybe you should talk to HIM about it.

He could be under a lot of stress, and mentally exhausted.
Or he could be tired of your "routine".
Or he could have gotten all he wanted from you, and is trying to figure out a way to get rid of you.

Nobody can read minds.  So again - ask HIM.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

Try something like this:  "I have some needs in this relationship and they are currently not being met.  Can we sit down and talk about how we can fix this?"

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Hmm .. I would never jump to the conclusion that he has fallen 'out of love' .. because THAT may not have ANYTHING to do with this.

As unusual as loss of interest may seem, it really is not that 'unusual'.  The lack of a show of physical contact or even emotion can be attributed to a number of things from infidelity to underlying health or physiological issues.  Even stress can curb an indiviuals 'interest'. Talk to him, and perhaps it's time for a check up with his doctor.

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Unfortunately this sounds like one relationship that just wasn't meant to be and it happens a lot nowadays.  It sounds like he just fell back out of Love with you and has lost all interest in you but under circumstances is letting you stay until you have decided you have had enough and move on on your own. Its nobodies fault here except right situation, wrong time so decide what you want here and move on but don't give on Love as Mr Right could be just around the next corner but give yourself some time to get yourself straight here again before trying again. Sorry and good luck

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