My parents are both deceased. My son is a grown man now.
I think it's a good thing to see other places and live in other areas. But when it comes to having children I would want to be close to my family. I'd want my children to know their family. When times get tough I'd want my family to lean on and to help out.
Not everyone is blessed to have a family, much less a supportive one. If you have one consider being close to them when having children.
No, I'm not ... That neither.