So my Boss asked me out 2 months back and it was tough saying no because i find him exceedingly attractive.He so wants to sleep with me and i am finding it hard to keep saying no.He s married .what to do?

Jann Nikka answered

All of the above, plus document everything. Tape record him if possible. And keep saying NO.

Walt O'Reagun answered

Politely remind him that his repeatedly asking you could be construed as "sexual harassment" as well as "creating a hostile workplace" ... Then remind him that he is married, and ask what his wife would do if she found out.

btw - if this is in the US, in some states the wife could sue YOU if you do get involved with him.

Cookie Roma answered

You know exactly what you need to do. You go find your moral compass then find a back bone and no need to say no. The answer to him is HELL NO. If he continues to push the issue you file a sexual harassment suit (through your local labor board) against him. What do you imagine will happen if you start something up with him. THINK about it. If he'd treat the woman that he took legal votes with what do think he'd do to you?

John Doe answered

Next time he asks you, remind him that he's married....then tell him that once he's divorced, he can ask you out at that time... But until then, tell him to leave you alone.

Bikergirl Anonymous answered

Find another job ! Do not .. I repeat do not get hung up on this man .. He is a user (obviously) and sexual harrassment on the job is against the law! You mean nothing but a play thing to him .. Clearly.

He doesn't care for or respect his family, the law, or you .. so what exactly would you get out of sexual favour for him? Dont fool yourself into thinking he will suddenly become someone worth getting involved with .. the man has no integrity.