I'm sick of guys using me for sex and that being all they care about...I want a real relationship, how to tell if a guy really likes you?

Take "it" off the table. Get to know them as a friend. Date for awhile, take things slow.

If the guy likes you for you and not "that" he will hang around even after you tell him "no".

Don't give it up so easily. If he likes you, he'll stay around for YOU.

Find a different crowd of guys to hangout with

A heart cannot be judged by how much you love,

But by how much you are loved by others.

Hold out for the Real One, it might be closer than you think,

Stop handing " it " out like candy. Make them want you really bad first. Hold out for a really long time.That's how they fall in love with you.

If you only offer sex and not friendship, most guys will choose the sexual aspect. On the other hand, you allow a guy to get to know you, you have the makings of a relationship. Sex should NEVER be the first thing offered. Why? Because you end up where you are - where you never have a relationship with a guy, merely sexual encounters.

Take the subject completely out of the picture. Don't even offer it - or suggest it - or talk about it.

Yes, women can have just a sexual encounter with a guy, just like the guys do. But women are built differently - they feel differently about a relationship than a guy does, generally speaking. Put yourself on a sexual fast. Just date and see if you feel any differently about guys after you've had a few dates without sex. If you feel you cannot sustain a relationship because you feel insecure or inadequate, you might try counseling to help you get to the root of this issue. You CAN be worthy without adding sex to the mix. Hope this helps.