Think about if you were his girlfriend and some other chick was moving in on him for sexual gratification. It's in you to do the right thing. You don't want a guy who would so easily cheat, because he will turn around and do it to you as well. Your best option is to cut ties completely and find someone who has as good of morals as you do.
How's that possible that you be aware he love someone else & he wants you for his sexual pleasures only & yet you love him ?
-You disrespecting yourself
-You disrespecting the other girl for giving him a chance to come to you for his sexual desires anytime he got tired of her.
-You wasting your time
-You caring about someone who don't care about you
-This is not what you deserve (unless you qualify yourself otherwise)
Think is about all that , you might be able to walk away simply then!
Walk away, unless you like being used.
Walk away. I know it's hard because you love him, but he doesn't love you. If he's with someone but wants to cheat on her with you, then he would do it to you if you dated.
You run!!!
Girl, you deserve better. You really do.
You are way too good for that mess. Speaking from experience, and I've been where you are sorta, he didn't have a girl friend, but none the less. I know you asked this a couple days ago, but you need to know this isn't a healthy relationship, you should have someone who wants to be with you, and not someone who just uses you. Best wishes to you. :)
Do you know what a 'red flag' is? .. There seems to be many flying around this guy. I'll try to make this as clear as possible... HE only wants you for sex. He already has a girlfriend. He is a cheater. He doesn't really care about you. He doesn't really care about his girlfriend. He's not worth the time of day. AVOID HIM LIKE THE PLAGUE!
That is the kind of person you need to keep out of your life .. not invite him (and the drama and heartache that comes with him) in.
You walk away, quickly. The guy is a cad. After you walk away figure out what in your life has made you even ask this question. You should have known to run from him all on your own with no reservations.
This isn't a relationship which is what you obviously want with this boy, he's just using you for sex and he's even telling you that he already has a girlfriend. If you don't demand respect you won't get it and without respect you won't find love.
You may want this boy because he's not available, there's nothing so attractive as something we can't have. Respect yourself and tell him he is disrespecting you and to shove off.
I know it's tough, but you have to walk away. Later, when you find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and who loves you too, you will look back on this and realise how stressed you were getting about it when in the end he didn't matter.
You need to be with someone who makes you happy, not someone who uses you!
Also, think about how the girlfriend will feel when she finds out - because she WILL find out. It's just not worth it.
You already know the answer you just want us to tell you what you to do. You are better than some mans trash, don't let him use you that way. He is garbage so throw him out & don't look back. It isn't love if he make feel bad about yourself. Get out, get counseling.
This guy is a player and you arebeing played find someone else quick
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