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Is using a note to ask her out a bad idea? (More below)
Cant seem to find her alone,  and I don't see her all that often

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Danae Hitch answered

If you personally cannot screw up the courage to go up to a girl and ask, to her face, to look in her eyes, and ask if she wants to go get a Coke with you; go to the movies with you, then how are you going to handle the actual dating when you have to talk to her face to face? Bury your face in your phone and text her while she is sitting next to you? The worse thing that would happen is she would say No.

Be quietly confident. Lift your head up, smile and while you are looking at her like she is the most beautiful girl in the world and simply ask if she would like to go get some ice cream (or whatever).

Each time you do this, you will gain confidence. You will not gain anything by passing her a note begging her for a date.

dragonfly forty-six Profile

I think asking her out face to face is more personable. If someone asked me out through a note, I would decline. I couldn't be with someone who was afraid of asking me out. It would make me wonder how many other things he's too afraid to do. I always say, "Take that risk!" When you are older it's the risks you DIDN'T take that will always haunt you. Go on.....jump in the fountain!!!

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Anonymous answered

There is a girl at work that I like (don't advise against dating at work please) I can't seem to get her alone to ask her out or for her number. So I thought maybe I should give her a note. I am running out of time to ask her due to the job ending, and I need to do something. Any advice would be appreciated

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Michael Poland answered

This could be the one of the best things you will ever do. Don't miss out.

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