I'm going to visit my ex gf mom, she was in the hospital around 2 months ago. Is it a good idea? She is a really nice lady, her daughter and I broke up around 9 months ago


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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

I don't see why not ! It was nine months ago so she shouldn't be upset if you visit her Mom. If her Mom is OK with it, then go see her. Nothing wrong with showing respect and kindness to your elders. I think it's a good idea !

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David Skywalker
David Skywalker commented
I actually went and it turned out better then expected. The whole family was there, even my ex, but somehow it wasnt as awkward as I thought it would be. It was a very lovely night just having a conversation with them. Thank you guys!
Rooster Cogburn
Rooster Cogburn commented
Glad it worked out for you ! You did the right thing. Other people could learn a lesson from you !
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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Awesome idea here as this has absolutely nothing to do with your friendship with your friend but more to do with the friendship you've developed between her Mom and you so -  yes most definitely go visit her out of that friendship. 

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