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I just found out one of my parents isn't my birth parent but the other is? Help?

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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

You just have to learn to accept that. I didn't learn that my Father wasn't my real Father until I was about 30 but always suspected it as I didn't look a lot like my brother or sister. Not much you can really say about it as I'm sure there is a reason that you weren't told right away. 

Just accept who you are and your present parents for raising you the best they know how. Forgive !

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Woof Woofy answered

Doesn't matter. Your non-birth parent still raised you, and took care of you. And what  was your birth parent doing? Was he/she involved with your life?? Did he/she take care of you?

If my dad told me that he wasn't my birth dad, I wouldn't care. I would still love him the same as I did before. (I saw a photo of my dad when he was in his early 20's. we could have been twins)



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Jazlyn Bell answered

If they both love you then that's all that matters.

Janis Haskell Profile
Janis Haskell answered

That simply means that one of them is your parent by choice ... Not a bad thing.  Having a parent by heart rather than biology can be a real blessing :)

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