I liked a guy, he liked me, he moved. We still talked on Facebook and we were still dating, but then I have a message from him saying "I didn't really like you, and I'm breaking up with you." And then blocked me. I'm upset, what can I do?


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Cyber Tooth Tiger Profile

Well there are more guys out there besides him. It's so sad for guys to be so rude towards females - I don't care how bad some girl (woman) treats me I will still totally respect her. I would definitely say it's time to move on without him. But if you still care about the guy a lot the ball's in your court whether you can go through with it.  If you're young you will have lot trouble moving on. But Facebook and other Social media websites aren't always the best choices to make when you're looking for someone to date and find love.

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Unfortunately there are no guarantees in Love of any sort and this happens more times than not and there really isn't anything you or anyone can do about it .  There is no way on earth we can ever make someone feel the same way we do about them or any way to make them love us forever either. 

So sorry, this happened but you deserve better so time has come to pick up the pieces of your heart and move on and find another guy. Good luck and Merry Christmas

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Sara Lewis answered

Usually I wouldn't comment in situations like this without knowing all of the details by telling you that the guy you're talking about sounds like a waste of space, but... from what you've said, this guy sounds like a waste of space!

I think it's totally understandable that you are upset. Whilst you can't be too mad that he changed his mind about the relationship - this happens, sadly, and it's never nice, but that's just human nature- the way he has dealt with it is horrible and cowardly.

If I were you, I would probably want an explanation for his behaviour, but if he has blocked you he is clearly not willing to give you the answers that you deserve. 

For this reason, I would just cut all ties and move on. It might be upsetting to begin with, but just keep reminding yourself that you are always better off without these kind of people in your life, whatever the situation!

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