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A boy keeps flirting with me and has called me fit but has a girlfriend what do I do?

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Lia Tan Profile
Lia Tan answered

Continue flirting with him and just have fun doing it. Don't think about that this could get serious or anything because that could stiffen you up and can potentially ruin things for you. That's why just act like yourself, be flirty, and don't think about the possibilities yet because they can get the better of you. And if more happens, then be happy. If not, then maybe you should try to make the first move.

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A Otto answered

Just ignore him how would u feel if u knew that your boyfriend if or u do haev one was flirting with another girl???? Just think about that goodluck

Grace Hall Profile
Grace Hall answered

Thanks for the reply they are both very different answers but here's the thing I'm one of the only girl he can trust and I don't want to brake that trust by ignoring him. But I don't want to flirt with him cos I don't feel the same way about him as he does for me.

thanked the writer.
Yo Kass
Yo Kass commented
I could be wrong and this may not be what you want to hear, but when this guy says you're the only girl he can trust - he may just be saying this to get on your good side.

If he's a bit of a "player" then he might be saying the same thing to a bunch of other girls. Us guys are cleverer than you think when it comes to persuading girls they're "the only one for us".

If he doesn't respect his girlfriend enough to be honest with her, what makes you think he's being straight with you?

Also, he must trust his girlfriend to some degree... otherwise they wouldn't be going out. So saying you're the only girl he can trust just doesn't add up.

I don't know all the details though, so I guess I could be wrong.
Anyway, I think you're doing the right thing. Don't flirt back, remain a friendly... if he breaks up with his girlfriend (which it sounds like he probably will) then at least you won't have to deal with any of the guilt or grief
Grace Hall
Grace Hall commented
What I mean I'm one of the only girl he trusts is he has known me for years and if he has a secret or a problem I'm one of the first to know

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