Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

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Yo Kass answered

To be honest, there's not going to be a way of knowing for sure unless one of you makes the first move.

What is it he does that makes you think he likes you? You mentioned that he acts differently around you... This can be a pretty big sign that he has feelings for you - but exactly how strong and what he intends to do about them kinda depends...

My advice would be to act friendly towards him, make it clear you're interested, but hold back from outright confirming it.

If he responds well to this approach, maybe organize some alone time together - go watch a movie or go for food. Something casual that could be perceived as just "hanging out", but will allow you to suss him out too!

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Yo Kass
Yo Kass commented
I know moving on sounds easier than it actually is, but it's all about taking small steps. I get that you want to cling on to hope, but in the meantime - why not think forward too?

Maybe there's a guy you feel close to that you wouldn't mind dating? Why not ask him out instead. He might not be the love of your life, but at very least he might help make this other guy jealous.
And, you never know, it could lead to something unexpected to. Just watch out that you don't go leading someone on.
Lara Hanes
Lara Hanes commented
Yeh i know but i just really love this guy and i may have ruined it, probably sounded full on but honestly i believed he felt the same, if i didn't send this msg and backed off for a while do you think he may have one day got the courage to ask me out? because i live two doors away from him it is harder to move on as i see him all the time. It may be awkward now even though he said he doesn't want me to feel uncomfortable. I know the less interest you show in someone the more they want to be with you, but i dont get why he isn't happy i felt the same if he ever felt the same, do you mean like he may like me but is playing mind games and really wants me to think he doesn't, i don't know why he could not have forgiven me and given me a chance, it ain't my fault i feel this way, anyway look i can't thankyou enough you have been such a great help putting up with my loads of messages too.
Yo Kass
Yo Kass commented
No worries, I'm sorry things didn't work out as you had hoped. Just don't spend too much time thinking about "what fi you had things differently". I believe everything happens for a reason. Focus on the future and you'll see that things work out one way or another. Good luck!
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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

First never ever put anyone on the spot and expect a truthful or even an answer because it wont happen. You need to know the answer you seek is in his actions more than his words and actions do really speak a whole lot louder than words ever can. So watch his actions around you and especially if his friends are around and that should tell you. Also trust your gut feeling as the heart has been known to, and does lie.  Good luck

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Anonymous answered

haha gurl u got a chance , he may just be shy and nto know how to take this relationship further , you can always still talk to him and hang around with him , then if u see some signs you can be more flirty

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Lara Hanes
Lara Hanes commented
That's what I thought i wish, but now if you see other comments what has happened I guess what I thought was signs was all a lie, although your right he does seem shy, or maybe he isn't ready now, he doesn't even want to get to know me hurts so much but don't get why he would give these signs and say he doesn't feel the same now, he isn't a player one thing I know but yeh so confusing? Or maybe he doesn't want to like me but can't control his feelings so pretending hedoesn't and won't do anything about.
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angie zhang commented
yeah gurl mayb hes a player and not wantin an relationship or sadly he might not feel more than friends with you , dw gurl youre probably get a better guy , be friends with this guy still , you may become very good friends , then he will hopefully fall for you good luck gurl
Lara Hanes
Lara Hanes commented
That is what I thought but he is such a genuine, nice guy and from what people tell me, so it is tough, I am happy to have a friendship but if you saw what happened up in the other comments etc, when I told him how I feel and he said too much has happened to be friends, but we could have, but I guess he is young too, his feelings may change, as we are not friends at all and he now thinks that my feelings for him have ruined a possibility of a friendship I don't know what to do, he won't be able to develop feelings unless we hang out, I don't get why we can't put is behind us and start fresh as it seems he feels e same, do you think he may see me from a distance one day when he can tell I don't give a damn anymore and think differently or not?wish there was hope

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