I am 5'3 and weigh 140 pounds. Would you not date me because of my weight? I've also cut in my past and my body is full of terrible scars. Would you find that ugly? I'm going to try and lose 30 pounds by June.

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Addilynn Addilynn Profile
Just be you..and surely a person should like you for you..so you have scars...you should never cut yourself cus you are not doing urself any favours are you? When your upset wats cutting yourself gnna do? Its just gnna give you horrible scars for you look at and feel crap about urself for the rest of your life...well let me tell you..honey you are beautiful no girl is eva ugly no matter how many scars bruises disorders she has she is beautiful and if you beleve that you are..your life will flow beautifully..forgot the fools tht put you down ...they're all jus jealous..nobody can take the pride of beauty away from you..not even size 0 models and sexy girls! Your weight is healthy..8) so don't you worry girl! Now pls pls smile.!
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Bambi Deer answered
Don't make fun of me for this but I'm 5'6" and I weigh 157... That's not fat, sweetie. That's perfectly fine. And I've cut, too. But don't think of the scars as ugly. Think of them as trophies. You've accomplished what most people are afraid to do. So no, you are not ugly sounding. No no no.
Brittany Schlatt Profile
You don't need to change who you are, you're perfect just the way you are. I could care less about the scars, they don't bug me, I would care that you have someone to be there for you, when you need someone to talk to. I use to cut all the time also. I would definitely date you, you're beautiful.
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Anonymous commented
Thank you! I didn't expect such an outcome on this question. Maybe the magazines are wrong. Maybe you don't have to look like Taylor Swift to be perfect.. :)
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pheobe answered
If a guy judges you on any of your 'flaws' then he doesn't deserve you hun. You will find a guy that will embrace them and love you because of them, it makes you the person you are - you will be someone's perfect, you've just got to wait because it will be worth it :) xox
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Anonymous answered
No of cours not you weight is PERFECT !! An think about me I'm only 4'11 an 106 lbs!!  It doednt sound like a lot but it is when your as short as me !! Ha ha an scars are nothing they will bother knowone I have lots myself. Its not your weight or scars that make people like you its the person inside.
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Maxine Chan answered
You are not fat and I am 5 ft 7 in tall and the same weight as you. I am just tall and I have some fat on my stomach so no worries.
jordan pritchard Profile
I would date you and you need to be happy with your self not what other people exspect you to be
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Anonymous commented
Thank you very much. Its hard growing up now a days for teens. We're always trying to make very body happy to be accepted. But you're right. We shouldn't have to make ourselves perfect for others.
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Evan Endrise answered
You shudn't care what you look like. Noone should. Everybodies looks will go one day so don't wrry about anything. I think you look pretty cute:)

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