I don't mean to be flippant, truly, but have you ever heard of "house rules?" Sounds like you should have put some into effect quite a while ago. But that's proverbial water over the bridge now.
If your sons' girlfriends have children, it does not mean that they are troubled OR that they are bad people. If this were my son, I would ask him to explain to me what he loves about his girlfriend so I could understand and accept her more fully. There is good in anyone if you are willing to look deeply enough and go beyond your own bias. I wish you peace of mind. ~Pasha
If your sons' girlfriends have children, it does not mean that they are troubled OR that they are bad people. If this were my son, I would ask him to explain to me what he loves about his girlfriend so I could understand and accept her more fully. There is good in anyone if you are willing to look deeply enough and go beyond your own bias. I wish you peace of mind. ~Pasha