Why does my boyfriend keep cancelling dates? 


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Yo Kass Profile
Yo Kass answered
If your boyfriend keeps cancelling dates with you, there are two possible reasons for this:

A) He is very disorganised.
B) He's just not that into you.

Why your boyfriend keeps cancelling your dates
If your boyfriend keeps bailing on you, I think you're totally right to be at least a little skeptical about his commitment to the relationship.

A good boyfriend will want to spend as much time as possible with you. If he's besotted with you, then every moment apart will cause him anguish.

My advice would be to voice your feelings in a calm and clear way. Make sure he understands you're worried about his perceived lack of enthusiasm, but try to do it in a way that doesn't make you seem needy or fussy.

Basically - you're within your rights to expect him to keep his promises and show up to dates, but just make sure that he doesn't have a valid excuse before you put the heat on him!
Brenda Harrell Profile
Brenda Harrell answered
Hi, I do not know why he is standing you up, but I know I would start dating other people. If he is not in a profession, which causes his schedule to change at a moment's notice, I would move on with my life. Do not get caught up in the waiting game. You will miss out on so much in life. Time waits for no man. Take care!
ajinkya dod Profile
ajinkya dod answered
I think he must be dating & liking someone else. So try to break up...
Cheryl Regina Villanueva Profile
Dear, men always have a thousand reasons. If I were you, I'd find out what keeps him so busy. He must have given you at least a space in his priority list, or is it because he has other priorities? It's up to you to find out, since you have access to him one way or the other. More so, he's not the only eligible bachelor in town, don't you think?
Adelaide Love Profile
Adelaide Love answered
Maybe he doesn't like you as much as you like him - it's harsh but it's a valid reason.
Whatever the reason, you do need to find out, because it may cause problems in your relationship.
Aisha Profile
Aisha answered
There could be a number of reasons. The most important one is the fact that he has started ignoring you and he might be interested in someone else. Or he could be busy with his routine and could not make it. His expression could tell you the actual story.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
The same thing actually happened to me tonight. It sucks...so I feel your pain. Hang in there. Ask him if he really likes you and what his intentions are.

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