Why Does My Boyfriend Not Give Me His Password To His Email Account?

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Fred Jones answered
PBfan4 is exactly right. Everyone needs their space. You must feel there is something he is not sharing with you. That makes you jealous. A better thing for this is to talk to him about your feelings and why you feel the way you do. You need to make sure to let him know that you are trying to get control of your feelings so he does not get the wrong idea. Maybe it is what is in your emails that makes you think that he may be up to the same thing. I don't know what it is but something is causing you to be jealous and untrusting and that will lead to problems very quick unless you get them under control.
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Brandi lol answered
Why exactly do you need to know the password to his email account? You might be extremely close but he still needs his space and his privacy. There might by things in his email that he doesn't want you to see (not necessarily bad things). Hypothetically speaking its like him asking you for your diary key. He no more needs to read that than you need to read his emails. You might be together but everyone needs their own space and privacy.
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Sweet R commented
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he needs his space i uneccesairly got into this thing

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Elizabeth D. answered
Hi! I know how you feel. The "unknown" can sometimes be scary. I got to tell you why having his email password is a waist of time. Let's say he gives in to you and gives you his password, he can always have another email account that you're not aware of on the side if he chooses. Then apparently he's got nothing to hide right? But really he's just doing it in a much sneakier manner. So having his email password won't prevent him from doing anything online behind your back and won't help you in any way. Just feel him out, if you think he's doing something wrong talk about. If he doesn't acknowledge your feelings then you might be with the wrong man.
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Calla answered
He didn't give you his password because he is smart. Never give away your password.
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Anonymous answered
Seriously I think its two years gone already and you broke up......your boyfriend dint trust you and he had affair with some other chick from school where he use to flirt by his email.... I am answering guru :-) I can tell the future looking at your past...:-)
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I used to have my bf's every password and recently I log on to his phone acc online and found out he's been exchanging more than 300 texts with another girl within 2 days and have talked to her 2 hrs on their phone conversation.he always tell me I'm insecure for some reason.and he said it drives him away from me....I don't know what to do anymore...p.s we both change our passwords and not friends in fb ....but we r still togther....I love him so much..plz help me
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Why are you asking? Is it a trust issue? E-mail is one thing that a person has for their privacy. You should not be asking for his password.
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You probably want people to give you respect regarding your schedule and privacy, no?  To come and go as you please, and not always having to explain yourself to everyone?  Everyone deserves that -- taking it away from someone (regardless of whether they have something to hide or not) will drive a larger and larger wedge between you over time, simply because the person will feel that sharing everything with you is taking from their sense of being his own person.  When someone feels that way, they'll withdraw from you -- trust me.
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Well I really can't tell you, but I think if he loves you this shouldnt even be an issue- the term he needs personal space is b.s to me. The plain and simple fact is- if he doesnt trust you enough with something as insubstantial as an email password than maybe hes just not the one for you. Move on girl he sounds like a jerk and you deserve way better
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I agree with you!!! If he really loves you and doesn't have anything to hide he wouldn't mind. I just went thru this with my boyfriend of 2 years. He had cheated on me twice before. Everytime he would get on computer i was looking. He wanted me to trust him again so he gave me his password for both email accts also for his cell ph acct to go online and see what calls were coming in and going out. I'm still wondering if he has another email acct. You never know, time will tell!!!!!
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Anonymous commented
My boyfriend used to be in the army and he just started getting emails from a lady he used to be w/ in kuwait, after 6yrs. He replied to the first 2 emails, but now he's not replying to her. She keeps sending pictures of herself and asking for him to send pics or set up cam. If I didn't have his password, I'm sure he wouldn't tell me about this, and he probably would've kept responding to her. Sometimes you have to do things to help build trust back up when it's been broken a few times!
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I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now.. It was all good at first, I had his password to all his accounts and stuff,.. But it has been long distance for around 2 years now and I see him like after 3-4 months.. Recently things went bitter , he changed his passwords, and we are not friends on facebook anymore. But we are still together..

I think its my constant urge of knowing what he's upto that is making him to that

I don't know if I have done something wrong. :/

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