There are lots of ways you can satisfy a girl without intercourse and it all depends on the women. Some women may get satisfied just by talking to her a certain way. Other ways may include oral sex or by using your fingers. You can also incorporate sex toys in the picture. The toys will pleasure her as well as be a lot safer than actually using your mouth or your fingers. The best way to pleasure a girl without intercourse is to just ask the girl what she wants and what will satisfy her.
You can start kissing her and touching her makin her horny and start to finger her I'm sure fingering her would be just as good as sex I mean some people don't even like sex and love all the four play :) good luck
If she is sucking, the man will get the satisfaction. But she WILL get pleasure knowing that she is giving her partner pleasure.
That depends on the girl and her interests. Also the mutual interests you have in satisfying each other.
It's a turn on on it's own to satisfy your partner