You're married. Stop talking to James and start talking with your husband! James needs to go talk to someone who isn't thinking about cheating on her husband. You need to review your wedding vows. If you don't want to be married to your husband, get a divorce before you start shopping around again.
Now who is James??
Time will tell if you love him.
Do you know what it is?
I am only going to say this do you love your husband?if you do then it don't matter if james loves you or not.
Would you like it if your husband did this to you?
No,he shouldn't love you.And you are not supposed to love him.Because you are married.But you both can be good friends.